764 faves · 46 comments · Sep 11, 2011 2:00pm
jbaby430
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1 decade ago
when i was 4, a family member me... People that think, just because someone else has had , makes them a or whatever, they don't know that person's story. Everyone is their own person, with their own lives, and own decisions. Judgmental people need to keep their mouths shut. If they don't know the story, or the reasoning, then they have no right to say a word.. I'm sorry that happened to you, stay strong. and shrug the idiots off your shoulder. Not worth your precious time. :)
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LiesForTheLiars
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1 decade ago
Also, why does having make you classless? I've had . I consider myself to be an okay person. It is honestly just rude to judge someone on whether they have their virginity or not. And so what if they chose to have again and again? It's their life and they can have as much as they like. I have had more than once, that doesn't make me a . I don't sleep around. I was just ready, and no one else can tell you what age you are ready to have sexual intercourse. jcjgzygobivdyjc. Okie. I'm done with my little vent now, and as I said before, don't let people like that bring you down, you're beautiful.
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xoGAMERCHICKx3
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1 decade ago
Besides, even if people DO have "before marriage" (as if it's that big of a deal), it's no one else's business anyway. It's not going to send you to hell and it's completely normal and a nice way to express passion. Not being a virgin just because you know how to loosen up and have some fun without being a stick in the mud doesn't make anyone not classy. Same situation for being .
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sportigirl95
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1 decade ago
Not everyone means it like that....im just saying maybe they ment it for those girls who think that only reason to be with a guy is for ...i know alot of poeple that have had wether they were or they felt like it ws the right guy...not everyone judges like that and if they do then them judging others doesn't make them any better
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xocheerxo999683
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1 decade ago
whose quote was it ??
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TiffanyMalfoy
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1 decade ago
I feel sorry or you. :'(Stay Strong and hold on. Life will brighten up sooner or later.
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Randomlifeteen
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1 decade ago
what? why judge when you were ?
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laughter_14
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1 decade ago
doesn't count as losing your virginity, I'm sure she wasn't refering to those who were . (:
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CheyenneRinaldi
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1 decade ago
Nononono. My friend was . Being is obviously not a good thing and I don't count that as losing your virginity. The classless people are the ones who decide to have and keep doing it. It wasn't your choice. Stay strong.
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SmileForTheCamera
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1 decade ago
Person below; One person said the quote was rude and that people could have been , and the author said that victims were still whores.
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MaiiEeeShaSha
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1 decade ago
Aww, 'I'm so sorry for what happened to youu:( I really hope your okay hunny, and stay strong:)♥
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SmileForTheCamera
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1 decade ago
Wow. Thanks for all the comments everyone. ♥
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EvilAngel
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1 decade ago
I saw that quote & the comment the author wrote to someone saying that people who were were still whores. She's a . I'm sorry about everything that's happened to you.
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InspireCreateBecome21
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1 decade ago
I hate when people post quotes like that. Just because you don't have your virginity doesn't make you any less classy than people who do because you don't know what happened or the situation. People need to back off and stop judging. I still have mine ,but I don't judge people that don't. I'm sorry that you were and that you lost the child. Stay strong. :)
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ThePerfectMess
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1 decade ago
i'm really sorry to hear that ;// but imo, if it wasn't your choice to have it taken away, then you still have your virginity. (if that makes sense..?)
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AlyssaXx4434
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1 decade ago
Im so sorry for what happened, it must of been terrible going through all of that, Be Strong:)
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thisisme_getoverit
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1 decade ago
My cousin me when i was nine.
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behind_the_eyes
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1 decade ago
im sorry that happened to you but i think what they mean is for the ones who chose to do it...and more than once. Cuz at 13 its rediculous to chose to have . just sayin:)
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dancexlovexbieber
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1 decade ago
im sorry, about ur kid, & everyhting.:/
but i think hat quote was referring to whores. ha, (:
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Sydnerr17 · 1 decade ago
That's not losing your virginity. Virginity is more than just intercourse. It's a connection between two people. You are a virgin in my eyes cause my story is similar. & I think that B---- needs to get some class. Judging people isn't classy it makes you an . Comment me if you ever need to talk . <\3
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