JUST ADMIT IT; ALMOST EVERY GIRL
has (or has had) a
fantasy about some guy. Maybe it's Taylor
Lautner, or some random hot senior; but this quote's
mostly for the girls who have had a fantasy about their
crush, only to be let down. You know, the kind of fantasy
where he loved you back. Maybe it involved him asking you out
in some sort of really cute and clever way. It might have had
a kiss or two in there somewhere, it might have even involved
a wedding and you might have even thought of some potential
names for your kids. Or you might have started out more
realistically, where he just simply admitted he liked you and
decided to be your boyfriend, and then you'd go out for
the rest of high school, at the very least.
However, the real world is no fantasy. It turns out he
doesn't like you. After liking him for the longest time,
he told you he didn't want you around. It wasn't a
surprise; it seemed like this had always been the vibe he had
given off to you. (or was it
his friends?) Either way, you were disappointed. Maybe
you cried, maybe you didn't. It's not like you
didn't expect it all along.
Maybe your story's a little bit different, but the advice
I give to you is the same: What do you do when the fantasy
life with him doesn't work out? You create a new one. One
that's even better than the one before. It doesn't
have him in it. Instead, it has you, but a better you than
you've ever been before; an even happier you. You're
surrounded by all your friends and family - all of the people
who truly care about you. Perhaps you're also doing
better in school. You still end up in your dream college and
then go on to work in your dream career. Maybe you're
even a rock star! It's your dream life, so make
it whatever you want it to be. But for now, you're just
making the most of your high school years. You're having
tons of fun, and you're not letting some guy
bring you down. You're not letting anyone or anything
stop you from creating dreams. Creating dreams that squish
the dreams of some guy into little tiny
bits.
All
you
have
to do
is live
them.
