lovinglife · 1 decade ago
Dont listen to people on the internets opinions. Its your choice. Abortion is your choice, adoption is your choice, keeping it is YOUR choice. dont let your parents or boyfreind make it for you. good luck :) <3
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SamiChinchilla · 1 decade ago
There are so many things to consider in this situation. But the decision is yours.

To be honest, if I were you I wouldn't get an abortion. Consider adoption, maybe?
You really have to think.
One thing you CAN'T do is hide it.
Tell your parents and your boyfriend together.
Hopefully they will take the news well.
& your parents will also help you with some of the decisions.
You don't have to do it alone.

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DropDeadDaisy · 1 decade ago
Having a child young is hard, believe me I know! But the decision is yours & yours alone (well your partners too I guess) you shouldn't be asking these people for advice, they can't make the decision for you. Can you give the child the best possible life? Or would it be better to give it to someone who could? These things you have to consider. You really need to sit down & talk with your parents & partner, they're the ones who should be helping you through this.
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ShadowPhoenix2010 · 1 decade ago
I'd have a sit down with your parents AND your boyfriend; together. Just be straight out honest. And to be honest with you, if you're boyfriend isn't ready for a kid, then seriously consider adoption, you can have an open adoption so you can get pictures and see the baby every now and then. There are plenty of people who look at pregnancy and children as a gift because they can't have their own children (myself included.)
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manicmorgan · 1 decade ago
Honestly, I think that if you don't want the baby, there are thousands of couples out there who would love to spoil your child. :)
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_DropDeadGorgeous_ · 1 decade ago
Engel i added you.
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Engel · 1 decade ago
add me:goof_ball_karys@hotmail.com and we can talk there.
Tbh, I'm totally jealous that you are, i really want a baby. Only you can make this choice darling, if you think you're not ready, then your choice is there. but if you know that your boyfriend and family will support you, then i say go for it :) im pro life though so other people might have a different view :/

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_DropDeadGorgeous_ · 1 decade ago
I'm not ready but im agaist abortions but if someone/me/family needed to get one really badly then i would accept it. And i will add you.
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amberarsenic_x · 1 decade ago
to be honest: i do not believe in abortions and thats your child so i'm sure you'll regret it. and if he's your soon to be husband tell him he obviously loves you. if you need anymore advice add me on msn :amberarsenic-x@hotmail.com
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jessikaaa · 1 decade ago
well do you think you are ready for a baby couldnt you handle it ask yourslef a few questions before you make big choices :)
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sometimessmiley101 · 1 decade ago
be strong honey. i'm here for you and so are your friends and family. whatever you do, do NOT get an abortion. you will regret it for the rest of your life. that's your baby. you can't just kill him/her.
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