I know this is long, and it isn't pretty, but please, please read;I just wanted to vent about the unfair double standards a lot of us girls have towards guys. Just today I was going through top quotes and saw one about guys having amazong bodies, but ugly faces. Girls, you know damn well if someone was to say anything like that about you, majority of us would dwell on it for the longest, and be super offended by it. We spend hours making quotes about how we want a guy who we love us for who we are, imperctions and all, why do we not realize that guys have insecurites of their own? I'm sure some of them are aware that they aren't the best looking or maybe they don't have the best body, and I'm sure most guys have heard us girls complain about how all guys want in a girl is big boobs with a tiny waist and a big butt, but yet if a guy was to come on a site like witty and see all the quotes we've made about how hot they are with their six packs, and how flippy hair is always cute, don't you think the ones without the qualites we obsess over will put themselves down? I never realized a lot of these things till I was talking to a guy friend about it, there I was whining as always about how shallow guys are, about how they completly judge us girls based off the way we look, not even taking the chance to get to know us as individuals. Then out of no where he stopped to point out the fact that us girls are no different. He told me about the many rejections he got, not because the girl didn't like him, but because she was ashamed to. He's had countless girls turn him down because he isn't the most popular guy in the school, and he's well aware of how he isn't the best looking. Even now as I'm thinking about it, I remeber a time when I turned down a guy I kinda liked (he had an amazing personality) because I didn't think he was good enough for me. It was a complety shallow thing to do, and i regret it. So from now on, I'm going to treat all guys the way I want them to view me. No, I will not disregard their looks completly, I will be aware of them, but I will fully recognize the fact that looks and social staus are not what I about anymore. I'm going to try and understand that although guys have been taught not complain about it like we do, they have feelings and parts of themselves they wish they could change. Sorry if this bothers anyone, I'm just stating something i felt needed to be said, and sorry if it's kinda confusing, I just couldn't get all my thoughts to come out right. And I love whoever took the time to read this!!!!♥
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