Before you grow up, your must fall in love 3 times.
Once, you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more. Once you must fall in love with someone you believe is perfect. You will learn no one is perfect, and you should never be treated as anything less than you deserve. And once, you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be. And when your through with all of that, you learn that all the people who care about you the most are the ones that hurt you, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that needed you the most. But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and its not something that can be defined, it is different to each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone only wants to be loved.