I just got the cutest message of my life from one of my coworkers who I always thought hated me, we were getting into a very deep conversation about past relationships and just life in general and he said this.
" i'm here, you can open up to me, i won't promise that i'll always understand, to be completely honest, i don't understand why self harm was what you resorted to to ease the pain, but i'll listen, i won't judge, and i'll do everything in my power to ensure that you don't have to worry about being alone, because i am now your attachment, you better not hurt yourself, because you'll be leaving me behind, and i promise you, i'm not just saying this to get laid, and i won't leave you behind because believe it or not, i do care about you, sure you may drive me crazy occasionally, and i may not always, or ever, be nice but when it matters most you can count on me and i'm not leaving no matter how hard you push."
I didn't think I liked him before this... now I'm not really sure.