A person with cuts (wrists, thighs, shoulders, stomach) aren't weak. Someone that deals with so much pain but puts on a smile and laugh for other peoples benefit isn't weak. Anybody dealing with anorexia or bulimia aren't looking for attention. No one with depression wants you to know about the scars. In fact, they usually go to extreme measures to cover it. Oh, and NEVER EVER EVER tell someone your life is harder than theirs. True, you may have some hard things in your life happening at the moment, but you might be able to handle it better than them. We all deal with things differently and there are things happening behind closed doors that you don't see. So please, don't tell anyone to just deal with it and move on. They may be close to the edge, and you might just be the person to push them over it if you say they're weak. These people are stronger than you will ever know. You can't even comprehend the pain they may go through every day of their lives. Please think about this before saying something you might regret later...