beatlepal
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1 decade ago
That's good to hear!!! I hope you never have to go through that again!! (but if you're like most of the rest of us, you will) So, live long and prosper!!! (I'm such a nerd, but I'm proud) reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Well, it all really does come back to how you see it. Even though it's really hard ( like super duper I think I may go nuts) most of our insecurities seem really stupid when we apply actual logic to them. It hurts a lot to know that these things that we've put so much emotion into and are bogging us down aren't nearly as big as they seem. Trust me, been there, done that. But as soon as a little light is she'd on them they become so much more bearable. It's easier to do this when youve got someone in your corner fighting for you. So, I wish you the best of luck in all of your endevours and hope you succeed far better than in your wildest dreams!!!! ;) reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Ah, thank YOU, for you followed me first reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Aw, thank you! I'm just glad I could help! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Yeah, don't just sever the connection or anything but try for a nice drift apart. If it comes down to it, you may have to tell him, you still wanna be friends, but just not that close of friends or whatever. Ignoring him will only make your problem worse, and you have to try to look at it from his perspective too, first you guys were pals and all, but now all of the sudden your friend is angry at you and ignoring you. So it might not evn be clingy-ness but being concerned reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Oh. Have you told him that? Because, you can't fix what you don't know is broken. But if you have, maybe just distance yourself from him. Don't totally cut yourself off from him but maybe he just isn't mature enough to be a close friend yet. You don't want to cut him off completely because he mught grow up a little and become mature reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Well, if he's trying to apologize, that does say something that he's willing to work it out and try to fix it, which is good. Does he know what he did wrong? reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
I just got done reading what you have so far in "Memorie of Him". Overall, I really, really liked it!! I like how your main female protaganist isn't exactly the most likeable character. It makes it realistic and it's a bit of a change up from the norm. Your descriptions and word choice are amazing! Keep up the good work!! My only critiques would be that your male protagonist seems a bo perfect and his internal monologues and thinking patterns don't seem masculine. Right now, the plot isn't particularly exciting but I think I sense it picking up soon. Overall, I love it. Keep up the good work!! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
@Dancegurliee No problem! I have loads of tips if you ever need them, so just ask!
@CaosGoMoo Of course I'll read it!! Sorry for the long delay, I haven't been on and I'm sure I'll love it!! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
I'm just glad I could help. reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
No, when I saw that quite, I was just like, "Holy Crud!! I know that!!" So I thought I'd share reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
I actually got slid into while playing catcher... no one told me I was supposed to drop to my knees to protect the plate... oops. I had my glove down, and her foot rammed the glove (with the ball) into my leg.
I still got the out though! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Glad to have helped!! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
No problem! I had to leave pretty soon after that as well reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Alrighty!! Thank you, much! reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
I follow everyone back ;) reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
I'll bet, I'll bet. Just take life one step at a time, it's like being on a rollercoaster, you get more scared looking ahead and worrying than when you actually get there reply
beatlepal
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1 decade ago
Glad I could help! Sometimes it just takes a fresh pair of eyes to look at a situation reply
beatlepal · 1 decade ago
That's good to hear!!! I hope you never have to go through that again!! (but if you're like most of the rest of us, you will) So, live long and prosper!!! (I'm such a nerd, but I'm proud)
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Well, it all really does come back to how you see it. Even though it's really hard ( like super duper I think I may go nuts) most of our insecurities seem really stupid when we apply actual logic to them. It hurts a lot to know that these things that we've put so much emotion into and are bogging us down aren't nearly as big as they seem. Trust me, been there, done that. But as soon as a little light is she'd on them they become so much more bearable. It's easier to do this when youve got someone in your corner fighting for you. So, I wish you the best of luck in all of your endevours and hope you succeed far better than in your wildest dreams!!!! ;)
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Ah, thank YOU, for you followed me first
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Aw, thank you! I'm just glad I could help!
reply
beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Yeah, don't just sever the connection or anything but try for a nice drift apart. If it comes down to it, you may have to tell him, you still wanna be friends, but just not that close of friends or whatever. Ignoring him will only make your problem worse, and you have to try to look at it from his perspective too, first you guys were pals and all, but now all of the sudden your friend is angry at you and ignoring you. So it might not evn be clingy-ness but being concerned
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Oh. Have you told him that? Because, you can't fix what you don't know is broken. But if you have, maybe just distance yourself from him. Don't totally cut yourself off from him but maybe he just isn't mature enough to be a close friend yet. You don't want to cut him off completely because he mught grow up a little and become mature
reply
beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Well, if he's trying to apologize, that does say something that he's willing to work it out and try to fix it, which is good. Does he know what he did wrong?
reply
beatlepal · 1 decade ago
I just got done reading what you have so far in "Memorie of Him". Overall, I really, really liked it!! I like how your main female protaganist isn't exactly the most likeable character. It makes it realistic and it's a bit of a change up from the norm. Your descriptions and word choice are amazing! Keep up the good work!! My only critiques would be that your male protagonist seems a bo perfect and his internal monologues and thinking patterns don't seem masculine. Right now, the plot isn't particularly exciting but I think I sense it picking up soon. Overall, I love it. Keep up the good work!!
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
@Dancegurliee No problem! I have loads of tips if you ever need them, so just ask!
@CaosGoMoo Of course I'll read it!! Sorry for the long delay, I haven't been on and I'm sure I'll love it!!
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
I'm just glad I could help.
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
No, when I saw that quite, I was just like, "Holy Crud!! I know that!!" So I thought I'd share
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
I actually got slid into while playing catcher... no one told me I was supposed to drop to my knees to protect the plate... oops. I had my glove down, and her foot rammed the glove (with the ball) into my leg.
I still got the out though!
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Glad to have helped!!
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
No problem! I had to leave pretty soon after that as well
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Alrighty!! Thank you, much!
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
I follow everyone back ;)
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
I'll bet, I'll bet. Just take life one step at a time, it's like being on a rollercoaster, you get more scared looking ahead and worrying than when you actually get there
reply
beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Glad I could help! Sometimes it just takes a fresh pair of eyes to look at a situation
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Hello ;)
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beatlepal · 1 decade ago
Alrighty!!
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