My bestfriend really made me think last night . She said " Why do you go back to the same person over and over again , even when you know their going to do the same crap over and over again ?" And to be honest, I don't know ? Maybe because he's an old friend ? Maybe because I love him ? I know I need to stop going back to him . For myself . I just don't know how . Iit's so hard . He's put me through so much stuff and I still go back time after time . Can someone please give me advice on how to stop going back to him ? Thanks .