Steve · 8 years ago
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gabsxoxojk8 · 1 decade ago
hey!! im soooooo sorry i took so long to reply!! i havnt been on in soooooo longggg. noww idkk if this thing with you and ur best friend is still going on but if it is, heres what i have to say...


if she changed so much and is calling you horrible things behind your back, she most likely doesnt mean it. shes either trying to show off in front of her new friends, or cover uup the fact that she misses you too. either one, shes not doing it riight. so have you tryed talking to her at all?? maybe you should. and maybe travel basketball does have something to do with it. since shes traveling who knoes what kind of ppl she might be meeting?? if she is meeting new ppl, they might be having a weird kind of influence on her that you dont know aboutt.and transitioning grades prob. had something to do with it too. you never know. i would say just really try talking to her, nicely and pationtly, b/c you never know whats on her mind. annd you prob. wanna know. iif that doesnt work, maybe think about taking her to guidence office with you. and aaanother thing.....you gooootta stop crying!! im sorry!! but iits gonna let her kno that what shes doing is working and that it reeeeeeeeeally upsets you. you just gotta stand strong and hang in there!!
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ssrocks · 1 decade ago
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xXTwilightlvrXx1901 · 1 decade ago
I know exactly what you mean. Im going throw something like that and dont take her out of your life but try making friends with other people and taking sometime away from her. After awile if she still treats u like crap confront her and MAKE HER LISTEN! If she was a true friend then she would finally understand what she is doing is wrong. Unless shes off at you for something. Maybe someone told her something because they didnt like u and they want her away from u. All tho normally tht doesnt last tht long. But try laying low for a little bit and see what happens. & if something bad happens in her life she probably will end up coming back to you if she doesnt sooner or later but i dont think u would want to wait for tht. But just try your best and if u start hanging out with other ppl and u dont talk to her as much and shes still not talking to u. Well then she may not be a true friend. but u dont have to take her out of ur life just go on living ur life with ur other friends and still talk to her just not as much until she comes around.
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googlegirl · 1 decade ago
i have an answer. i totally get your situation. but if she thinks she can walk all over you, ses not your true friend, you may think you need her, but really what you need is a little confidence, to take that step forward. you know? but otherwise you can just talk to her about it, but if shes a jerk about she probaly is stringing you along to get gossip or something. just i understand your pain that happened to me. and i just got over them and made some awesome new friends, actually i found my bestest friend ever! but i hope you find your true friend, one that wont step all over you. and srry its long but ya.
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iwaslikewhoah · 1 decade ago
i agree with xdisenchatedx
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xdisenchantedx · 1 decade ago
yeah i totally get it. its really really tough but just try it. some times it only takes a few days. just act like you dont care anymore if shes going to act like that. if she was a real friend shed come back
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ashleyx3 · 1 decade ago
Well I'm glad you two got to talk about it. There always is the possibility that she honestly values your friendship like you do, but even if she does apologize, no matter how sincere she sounded, she might be lying. You should accept her apology but do not necessarily forgive her right away. You'll probably end up getting hurt. I'm not saying you should stop being friends with her, but you should find other friends and show her that you DON'T need her. Convince her and yourself that. Best of luck! Keep me posted
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xdisenchantedx · 1 decade ago
yeah i know what you mean. were kinda at that age where people start changing. i know its hard but some times you do have to let go. like my one friend who would make fun of me, i let go of her cause she didnt think i would do it and she came back to me. so you could try its really hard i know. and now me and her are good friends again
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iwaslikewhoah · 1 decade ago
i see your problem. this isnt gonna be easy. you obviously need her in your life, and im pretty sure she needs you in her life too. try and hang out with her more often. invite her to all your parties, invite her to sleep overs, invite her to everything.
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iwaslikewhoah · 1 decade ago
ok. im not really the best at this, but im going to do my best to give you the best adice i can.
well first, i definately think you should talk to her. maybe shes going through something that she doesnt think you can relate to. from what you told me, you guys sounded like you were the best of friends, so im not really sure how basketball couldve come in between you too. you could try asking her to shoot some hoops with you at a local park or your backyard or something. then you can talk to her about why she has been talking behind your back and saying you are annoying, etc. after try explaining to her that she was really hurting your feelings. if you guys are really best friends like you told me, then she will hear you out and all is well. otherwise, make new friends that you know you can trust and wont turn on you and enjoy your summer
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hotstreak420 · 1 decade ago
well u could try catching her when shes alone and talking to her and if it doesnt work its the summer screw her hangout with ur other friends theres no point of being friends withsomeone that talks about u!! :)
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quotelvr101 · 1 decade ago
thanks for the comment :]]
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xxdivaaaxx · 1 decade ago
yes, definitely tell me how it goes.
then i can help you from there on, sweetie
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xxdivaaaxx · 1 decade ago
hah, thats pretty funny you're scared to go back to school.
my spring break ended last weekend,
and i didn't want to go back because this girl was supposed to beat me up.
turns out nothing ended up happening,
so do not stress about tomorrow, or the unknown.
just take each moment as it comes.
and about crishauna, like i said,
nothing lasts, and it's probably just a phase.
what has she said when you've tried talking to her?

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xxdivaaaxx · 1 decade ago
to be honest, i'm not sure why she would just randomly start getting annoyed with you.
if anything, i'd blame it on the boyfriend, but that might not even be the reason.
maybe she's just going through a few changes, or a phase, nothing lasts forever so this will all end eventually.
until then, if i were you, i'd just try and forget about her, she really doesn't seem like she's worth all the years and heartache.
if you don't want to do that, i'd suggest trying to talk to her, face-to-face, and just pour out exactly how you feel.
it's the least you can do.
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xxdivaaaxx · 1 decade ago
ouch, that actually made me pretty sad, i hate the feeling of losing a friend,
it's happened to me so many times.
i've never had anything quite like what you're going through though.
one thing i'd like you to do for me is describe this crishauna girl.
what is her personality like?
how was she before all of this drama?
did anything happen that could have upset her?
has she made any new friends and/or gotten a boyfriend that might have changed her?
based on you answering those questions, i'll be able to answer you a bit better.

but by the information you have given me so far,
i believe she must have a reason to have suddenly changed like this.
i can't say much more because i need those questions answered.
but so far she sounds like someone you really shouldn't be stressing over.
you can most likely find someone who treats you much better.
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