kyleeshaykc · 1 decade ago
i read your quote, and im alwaaaays here to talk to. you can always vent to me, i promise.

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soapthegoat · 1 decade ago
Danielle,
i just wanted to tell you i read your quote about you being pregnant. it really moved me that you said you didnt want to get an abortion, even though youre pro-choice. im pro-life, and abortion is the first thing i would change if i could change anything. im 13, and imagining myself in your position, i know i would be afraid to tell my parents and friends. reading other things on your page, i saw you said you lost your friend to suicide, not to mention other family. im very sorry for your loss. i know you will think this is just like any other comment, but i wanted to say reading all this moved me a lot. my advice? 1. dont get an abortion. 2. if your boyfriend wont support you, dont try to stay with him, its not worth it. 3. adoption is always great, and there are always ways you can keep in touch with your baby, if you like..... oh btw, i have some friends... who really like to talk bad about others. see, i try to stand strong and support. ive been kind of ditching the mean ones lately, they were calling some of my other bffs and it ticked me off. seeing their reactions... well. it blew me away and i hated it. dont listen to them. YOURE BEAUTIFUL. look, im sorry for wasting your time, and i dont wanna ever sound bossy, but know if you need to talk you can talk to me. good luck with life :) oh, and my name is sophie... ill be praying for you
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xoxoEngalndxoxo · 1 decade ago
Hey I read your qoute about thinking your pregnant. Im 14 aswell. I know what its like to be called a and live without your besfriend. Im not going to pretend I know what your going through, because I dont, and can only imagine whats going through your mind. I read about what people are telling your to do, but remember this is your choice, not anyone elses. You sound alot stronger than I am, and if you ever want to talk, drop me a comment (:
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alisonx87 · 1 decade ago
hey , whether you rea this or not , inust wanted to say that I think you are so strong. and this particular situation will make you even stronger. you'll make it through this and if you need a vent, I'm one of hundreds to comment.
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fishbait · 1 decade ago
I read your quote and it will all be okay. Ik that the father wants you to get an abortion but i don't think that would be right. I think that if you know it would be to hard at least do adoption. If you ever need any help i will always talk to so you can comment anytime.
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kschmahl2 · 1 decade ago
hii. I read your quote about you having and thinking youre pregnant and i am really sorry that you have to go through that. The father is a jerk and should have known better... you were drunk, you werent in the right mindset to think about what you were doing. i am sooo sorry that you have to go through this, especially being as young as you are. im 14 also and i promise you that you are not alone. You probably wont get to this comment, as another couple hundred people left comments below me, but if you do, give me a comment on my wall. I would love to talk to you and help you with everything. i am really here for you. i will support you with your desicions and i will help you to the best of my abilities. So, if you want to talk, im ready. I'll come on everyday and check for a comment from you and I will come on everyday after that to make sure you are alright. if you have a facebook, look me up. Kelly Schmahl is my name ;) Or if you belong to the witty group on FB we can chat through thatt, Exchange numbers, maybee? I promise you though, im here for you..
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amandawitty · 1 decade ago
I just read your quote, and I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. The first thing you need to do it try and find out that you are in fact pregnant. If you don't want your parents to know right away, you can get one of your friends that you trust to go to the store and get a pregnancy test with you. Second off, I'm can't even imagine having to go through this at such a young age, never mind being an adult. Everybody makes mistakes, but you shouldn't go through life living with regrets. The only thing you can do for the time being, until you find out if youre actually pregnant, is wait. If you find out that you aren't pregnant, I think that you should tell your parents so they know that youre sexually active and they can get you birth control or something else. And if you are pregnant...then congrats! Having a baby is a blessing, and even if you don't want to get an abortion, there are several other options. You can choose to keep it or give it up for adoption. I think that your best choice right now is to get a test and talk to your parents. They will be mad, but I think that eventually they will be happy that you are responsible enough to talk to them about it. Good luck with everything and let me know how it goes! And remember, i'm always here if you need anyone!!;-)
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smile6 · 1 decade ago
I Read Your Quote; I am So Sorry That You Have To Go Through All Of That; I Can Tell You Are very Passionate About Dance; Stick With It; But Remember Life Is A Precious Thing; Please Don't Consider Abortion; Because Even Though You May Feel Like Everything Is Falling Apart And That Is The Best Road To Take, It's Not, You Have People That Care About You And Love YOu And Will Help You; YOu Are NOt Alone; If You Ever Need Anything Just Let Me Know I'll Try My Best To Help (:
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jayjaygirl14 · 1 decade ago
hey beautiful! I read your quote about you being pregnant and having with a boy older than you. Girl, we all make mistakes. He's a big jerk for not talking to you. Don't put yourself down for what you did. because you know what? I know someone who is in the same situation. In fact I know 2 people in this same situation. You are not alone. If you ever need to talk. I am here and if you don't want to post your buisness on my profile, then I can give you my email or something. but what ever you need I'll try to help you:)

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KeepHoldingOn_ · 1 decade ago
helllllo. i read your quote. personally? i wouldnt get an abortion. but thats me. and if you're 100% sure, you should tell your dad. i dont know what he's like but you need to be honest and tell him you were drunk when it happened. a lot of people are going to critize you and call you names, you just have to ignore it. ok? i'll talk to you whenever. if you have a facebook or a cell phone just tell me.
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margiemscott · 1 decade ago
if you cant keep the baby, put it up for adoption. maybe you could do online school or be homeschooled next year until you have the baby? Stay strong beautiful<3
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margiemscott · 1 decade ago
Hey(: yeah don't get an abortion.</3 if you can't handle the baby put it up for adoption.. you could possibly be homeschooled or do online school until you have the baby? thats what my friends sister did. <3
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BelieberChicxxx · 1 decade ago
Hey. I read ur quote :/ First of all u have to be 100% sure that ur pregnant. Don't fall apart already if u not sure. Get a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, talk to your closest person. An adult that is close to you. They will give u advice and they will help u tell ur parents. Personally, I'm against abortions. But it's ur choice. The baby is yours. I know it will be hard to go to school pregnant. I would tell u to go there, strong, and ignore those pigs who will bother u. But I don't think it's a good idea cuz all of the stress and the presure that you'll get, will go to the baby. Homeschool is an option. You wanna die? NO. Don't think that way. Okay, u did a mistake, u were drunk and u 'slept' with that dude. You don't deserve to die! Being pregnant (If ur pregnant) in the age of 14 isn't that common, but you will give life :) Think of that :) Don't feel bad about it darling. It happened. You can't change it now. You always can have an abortion but I'm talking about if u don't want to. Stay strong girl. You can handle it. Talk to me if u need ANYTHING. Let me know what happened :) (if u want) Kisses!
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linuspiggie · 1 decade ago
Your probably the bravest person ever. I dance as well, and I'm not into it as much as you seem to be but i'd hate to lose it too. Babie's areprecious things, and it's your tuth what you do. Tell your family though. And remember, everyone on witty is here for you, talk to me, or any one of these people any time. :)

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caitiecatforever · 1 decade ago
hey darl, read your quote & i know heaps of people have been talking to you about everything but the one thing i want to say is:
i think the situation between you & your parents is a lot like me & my parents. so just take one second to think- if you really are pregnant, your stomach is, sooner or later, going to start showing. a pregnant belly can not be passed off as just putting on weight. what will happen, if you don't tell your parents now, and they figure it out, it will be even worse. as much as it may not seem like it at times, your parents are there to help you through everything, even if they are mad, they will still love you. so, go to a doctor, and if you ARE pregnant, tell your parents. write it down, if you don't want to say it out loud.
and if it's a false alarm, then there's no need to tell them.
also, i really want you to come to me if you ever feel the need to vent or rant, about boys, school, this issue, ANYTHING. don't keep it inside.
comment mee(: <3
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darienbrooke · 1 decade ago
You are so strong, I wouldn't be able to go through with it:( And if you EVER need someone to talk to that actually cares. call me, text me, anything 912-541-0070 my friend went through this and she didn't tell her parents till really late and never went to a doctor and her baby was still born:( It was absolutly heartbreaking:( But just explain to your mom exactly what happened even though it's not going to be easy at all. I promise you'll be okay. and really, if you EVER need someone to talk to that won't judge you or anything hmu or even add me on facebook http://www.facebook.com/darienadams97 stay strong girl!! <3
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carolin3 · 1 decade ago
just keep your head up, because no one can see your beautiful face if your staring at the floor <3 your choices weren't the best, but the past is the past and you shouldn't beat yourself up about it. all you can do is do your best to make good decisions in the future to help you and your baby. i'm here if you need anything(:
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LookingThroughMyHazelEyes · 1 decade ago
Hi , I read your quote about being pregnant. I am here for you if you ever need me. So stay strong. But are you sure your pregnant?
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xxmickenziexx · 1 decade ago
Hi, my name is Mickenzie. I'm a dancer too. I read your quote about being pregnant. I'm always here to talk! (:
<3
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herestobrokenhearts · 1 decade ago
I'm only 13, but I could always tal to you. I'm super supportive, or atleast I like to think I am and honestl I would love helping you out. I know "I'm thirteen and just a baby" screw that, I know more situations and problems than some 18 year olds I bet! So seriously if you want somebody to talk to, I'd really love it<3 if not, still, stay strong(:
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