SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!
so, idk if this guy likes me.
at first, we were talking about how he used to like me.
he's my best guy friend, btw.
so, he told me that he still does.
i told him that that was sweet.
but he said that if we did become a thing,
that it would ruin our friendship.
and that night, i decided that i really liked him.
but, i didn;t tell him that.
then. he told me that after we started hanging out,
that he thought we'd just be firends.
so, i;m kinda disappionted.
and then, he's like at least you don't like this guy,
cause your tooo pretty.
and ugh.
please, someone help.
and should i tell him my feeelings?!
please help me allie.
Dear xxsmileyxfaces,
You;ve come to the right girl!! I have a lot of guy friends and I admit I've had crushes on the "just friends" type. But your situation is different. So, unless he brings it up, don't talk about it. He might have fallen out of love if he thinks that you don't like him. Second. if he does bring it up, (and if your as close as you say you are) tell him whats going on. I'm sure he can relate. And from what I highlighted in your question, he knows no other guy deserves you and he doesnt think he's worthy of such beauty( sorry lol just read shakespeare in school). And if being just friends will save you guys from never seeing eachother, its a sacrafice that, honestly, I see on tv all the time and I think its pointless if no one wants to do it. Tell him "I think we should give it a try, and if things get weird we can say we loved and lost but at least we had the expierence." Or you can say it in your own words. But NEVER be the one to tell him your feelings first, see if he still feels the same first. And let me tell you, this won't get easier, but instinct will kick in. You'll know what to do when it happens. You never know what'll happen until you try. Good luck and tell me how it goes!!! No one ever tells me! lol
With Love.
Allie <33
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