Don't tear me down because you're insecure. Don't call me fat because you're morbidly obese. Don't call me stupid because you don't understand your classes. Don't. I'm sure that when I have my first child, you'll call me a terrible mother because that's what you are to me. Mothers don't tear their children down because they feel bad about themselves. That's not a mother's role. You're meant to guide me and challenge me, not hurt me and demand things I'm not capable of. Your unrealistic expectations rule my life, but I'm done now. The ball's in my court. You can set these expectations, but what happens when I don't comply? When I don't measure up? Will you yell? Maybe you'll ground me. Maybe you'll let it go and then bring it up later when I feel okay. Everything that's good has to be ruined, right? You were a failure, so, naturally, I must be one too. You slept with guys at a young age and got pregnant, so, of course, I will too. Get your head out of your rear- it's not a hat. I'm not you. I'm smarter, stronger, and have been through more than you'll ever know. So, while you sit there with your blinders on-- ignoring the fact that your daughter is slipping away before your eyes-- I'll be building myself up with a hatred, a hatred of you and everything you stand for. Are you ready to stop? Stop lying and pretending you care. Stop pretending that things between us will reach equilibrium. Stop pretending like you want me around for college. You know I don't want to be near you, and you just want to keep controlling me. College is my playground, my investment, and furthermore, my chance at becoming something other than what you want to see. So go ahead. Keep thinking that I want to start my college search early because I'm smart or because I'm mature. In reality, the sooner I solidify where I'm going and when I'm leaving, the sooner my life will be bearable.
So- for everything you've called me: fat, stupid, ugly, insolent, rude, witchy, incapable, retarded
Just remember, everything I am is because of you. You say it all the time, "You're a direct reflection of me, so make me look good,"
Guess what. I won't. I refuse. Build your own image up because I'm not doing it anymore. Find a new punching bag, and you'd be wise to find one that doesn't hit back.