Sometimes, we want to say this to someone:
"You suck. You're an insensitive, inconsiderate,
selfish, cruel, thoughtless mean person
who doesn't deserve to be cared for
by a person like me.
I wish you could just disappear,
so you couldn't hurt me anymore!"
But when we open our mouth to say it,
it comes out a little softer like:
"It's okay. I still love you."