ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
I simply think the guy has a crush on you. He seems a lot like me, but I only keep talking about it I the girl likes me too...
Does h think you like him?
Just keep being honest about how you feel, that's important. reply
Atira
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1 decade ago
Okay, thanks. And no... I've never really had a crush that I'm aware of. I'm just not really into all that boyfriend/girlfriend dating stuff.. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
If you want to get closer to her, ask her to hangout sometime... if she can't hangout, or feels like she shouldn't - for her boyfriend -, just talk to her more, give her a call.
If you're planning to ask her to homecoming, tell her you aren't comfortable going with anyone else and wanted to go with her - something like that- then slowly tell her how you feel that night, if she says yes.
Sorry I couldn't be more help, sooner, I just moved houses and have tons to do.
:3
Most important, you HAVE to tell her, eventually... the worst truth is better than the best lie. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
I had that problem too... I just changed my password and moved on... reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Indeed, it's pretty terrible in comparison. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
She should bring it up to him, tell her that she should talk to Jared about kissing, THAT, or tell here to hug him and sort of tilt her head towards him, and try to kiss him, if he's smart, he'll realize she's trying to kiss him, and he'll go with it. Believe it or not, it's mor awkward for the guy with a first kiss, because he is expected to be the one to kiss her, and expected to sort of lead everything. Trust me, it was pretty awkward for me too. reply
lalaisacupcake
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1 decade ago
Ohh! okay! well thank you sooo much! lol i'll definatly tell her this and once again thanks... reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Hahaha I've known about all of this for a long time, I'm not an atheist, I'm agnostic, I believe in science. But, the big bang theory proves itself wrong because it states that the universe was the largest celestial object, and it was contained in a large ball form then exploded. But if the universe is the largest celestial unit, then what contained that spacial ball that held the universe? Boom, science proved wrong. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
You'll know you're friendzoned when you tell them you like them, and they say they don't like you back. Try to tell him something like "Hey ____, you were right about that other guy... I haven't liked him for awhile now, and honestly, I kinda like you now." Or something like that. Sorry, just a bit preoccupied so I have to answer these quickly:P reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
He may just be trying to drive you away, honestly... reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Don't try to "be" over the other guy, when you don't actually feel that way. If you feel ready to move on, then my advice to you, is to tell the other guy how you feel. Human psychology states that, when one person is attracted to another, and the other party is aware of the infatuation, the second party slowly, but surely will develop more serious feelings for the original person. So just tell him how you feel, and try to talk to him more if you haven't been already.(: Hope everything goes well! reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Honestly, that doesn't make any sense to me... PTSS maybe. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Hahah because well, it's a hard thing to do. Girls do the same thing, they KNOW the guy will say yes but won't ask him out if he's too afraid. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
That doesn't make much sense, but ANYONE can like 2 people at the same time, unless you're dating, then that's a little more f*cked up... I don't really know what to say though:P reply
nicolexoxohugsandkisses
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1 decade ago
no i know. and its fine. its confusing how he never gives a straight answer though like hes not honest but whatever reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
That's a big problem for a lot of girls, none of them are willing to ask the guy out themselves. They just decide, "He'll do it eventually, I'll just wait :3" but it never happens because, they don't "hit the iron while it's hot" so to speak. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Plain and simple, ask him out yourself... reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
That's a big problem for a lot of girls, none of them are willing to ask the guy out themselves. They just decide, "He'll do it eventually, I'll just wait :3" but it never happens because, they don't "hit the iron while it's hot" so to speak. reply
SheDreamer
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1 decade ago
-_- I feel like an idiot for not thinking of that myself. thanks! reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Hey! Your answer should be up now. I hope it helped! If it didn't, feel free to ask me again, and I'll try to be more detailed in have more clarity. Have a nice day!(: reply
HollaAtDat123
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1 decade ago
thank you soo much(: and I cut the guy out of my life. And moved on, I didn't even really like him, I liked the things he said to me! stupid players these days.... reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
I think I should answer this privately, not in a quote, haha. Well it's rushed, I ONLY have 3 minutes to do it so...
Anyway, it kind of makes me think that he wants to do *cough cough* "things" with you...
That, or he feels really comfortable telling you that.
It really depends on the status of your friendship or relationship. reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Hey! Sorry, I had computer issues, so I couldn't answer it! :/
Your answer is up now though:D reply
ask_a_dude
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1 decade ago
Nope... I'm lucky to have her<3 reply
ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
I simply think the guy has a crush on you. He seems a lot like me, but I only keep talking about it I the girl likes me too...
Does h think you like him?
Just keep being honest about how you feel, that's important.
reply
Atira · 1 decade ago
Okay, thanks. And no... I've never really had a crush that I'm aware of. I'm just not really into all that boyfriend/girlfriend dating stuff..
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
If you want to get closer to her, ask her to hangout sometime... if she can't hangout, or feels like she shouldn't - for her boyfriend -, just talk to her more, give her a call.
If you're planning to ask her to homecoming, tell her you aren't comfortable going with anyone else and wanted to go with her - something like that- then slowly tell her how you feel that night, if she says yes.
Sorry I couldn't be more help, sooner, I just moved houses and have tons to do.
:3
Most important, you HAVE to tell her, eventually... the worst truth is better than the best lie.
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Voodoo* · 1 decade ago
Thanks will do
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
I had that problem too... I just changed my password and moved on...
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Indeed, it's pretty terrible in comparison.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
She should bring it up to him, tell her that she should talk to Jared about kissing, THAT, or tell here to hug him and sort of tilt her head towards him, and try to kiss him, if he's smart, he'll realize she's trying to kiss him, and he'll go with it. Believe it or not, it's mor awkward for the guy with a first kiss, because he is expected to be the one to kiss her, and expected to sort of lead everything. Trust me, it was pretty awkward for me too.
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lalaisacupcake · 1 decade ago
Ohh! okay! well thank you sooo much! lol i'll definatly tell her this and once again thanks...
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Hahaha I've known about all of this for a long time, I'm not an atheist, I'm agnostic, I believe in science. But, the big bang theory proves itself wrong because it states that the universe was the largest celestial object, and it was contained in a large ball form then exploded. But if the universe is the largest celestial unit, then what contained that spacial ball that held the universe? Boom, science proved wrong.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
You'll know you're friendzoned when you tell them you like them, and they say they don't like you back. Try to tell him something like "Hey ____, you were right about that other guy... I haven't liked him for awhile now, and honestly, I kinda like you now." Or something like that. Sorry, just a bit preoccupied so I have to answer these quickly:P
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
He may just be trying to drive you away, honestly...
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Don't try to "be" over the other guy, when you don't actually feel that way. If you feel ready to move on, then my advice to you, is to tell the other guy how you feel. Human psychology states that, when one person is attracted to another, and the other party is aware of the infatuation, the second party slowly, but surely will develop more serious feelings for the original person. So just tell him how you feel, and try to talk to him more if you haven't been already.(: Hope everything goes well!
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Honestly, that doesn't make any sense to me... PTSS maybe.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Hahah because well, it's a hard thing to do. Girls do the same thing, they KNOW the guy will say yes but won't ask him out if he's too afraid.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
That doesn't make much sense, but ANYONE can like 2 people at the same time, unless you're dating, then that's a little more f*cked up... I don't really know what to say though:P
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nicolexoxohugsandkisses · 1 decade ago
no i know. and its fine. its confusing how he never gives a straight answer though like hes not honest but whatever
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
That's a big problem for a lot of girls, none of them are willing to ask the guy out themselves. They just decide, "He'll do it eventually, I'll just wait :3" but it never happens because, they don't "hit the iron while it's hot" so to speak.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Plain and simple, ask him out yourself...
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
That's a big problem for a lot of girls, none of them are willing to ask the guy out themselves. They just decide, "He'll do it eventually, I'll just wait :3" but it never happens because, they don't "hit the iron while it's hot" so to speak.
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SheDreamer · 1 decade ago
-_- I feel like an idiot for not thinking of that myself. thanks!
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Hello:D
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Hey! Your answer should be up now. I hope it helped! If it didn't, feel free to ask me again, and I'll try to be more detailed in have more clarity. Have a nice day!(:
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HollaAtDat123 · 1 decade ago
thank you soo much(: and I cut the guy out of my life. And moved on, I didn't even really like him, I liked the things he said to me! stupid players these days....
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Go right ahead!(:
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
I think I should answer this privately, not in a quote, haha. Well it's rushed, I ONLY have 3 minutes to do it so...
Anyway, it kind of makes me think that he wants to do *cough cough* "things" with you...
That, or he feels really comfortable telling you that.
It really depends on the status of your friendship or relationship.
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Hey! Sorry, I had computer issues, so I couldn't answer it! :/
Your answer is up now though:D
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ask_a_dude · 1 decade ago
Nope... I'm lucky to have her<3
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