squeaky930 · 1 decade ago
do what you feel is right in your heart. If you feel as though you guys should be together then be together. Dont let other people get in the way live for you not for others. Love hard and believe that he will cherish your heart enough to not hurt it. :) good luck girlie!!! :D

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x_theycallmequiet_x · 1 decade ago
Do you like him? as more than a close friend? Because if you truly like him, then why should his physical appearance matter? You like him for him. It's not something... materialistic. It's real. And if you feel like there's a connection, there's no way that your friends should stop you from saying yes. Then again, who's to say that they will? I've just written a bunch of contradictions xD but these are the questions you need to consider. If the relationship doesn't work out (which might happen), are you prepared for the possible consequences? Your friends might stop acknowledging you, you might not have a lunch table to sit at. Both of which are quite extreme and cliched consequences, but you need to think ahead. Of course, if your friends are true friends, I am sure that they will support you. I guess the real question is: Would you choose what your heart is telling you to do? Or, would you "play it safe" and continue to hang out with your current friends w/o any insecurities? Either way, you might possibly regret your decision. My advice: In a couple of years, guess what won't matter? How many friends you had. How popular you were. How socially accepted you were. All of those things are superficial. Chances are, you won't even remember half of the people in that crowd. People grow up, they go to college, they move away. And all that will matter at the end of the day are the things that are real; the things that were real. Decisions, decisions. Whatever shall you do? ;) such a long-winded unsugarcoated speech/lecture, BUT I hope this helps you(:
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Nepzgal · 1 decade ago
He seems like a great guy, don't throw away something that might turn out to be amazing just because you're worried about what others think. It's your life and what you think should be the most important thing. Forget about what others will think and listen to your heart.
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Loopy23 · 1 decade ago
Do what you feel is right but looks arent everything, its the person within that counts. If your friends dont support you in your choice then mabye they arent the people you thought they were? He seems lovely and dont waste a choice of happiness.
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