carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
try really tryy u have friends and family to support u stay strong <3
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
I`m going to try I really am but idk how long it will last.
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
then take a break of him....take a little break from dating and just focus on getting yourself back on track....stay strong honey <3 i hope this helped<3
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
Yes I have before he just acts like he never got my text! Im seriously so hurt I don`t know what to do anymore.... I`ve made a mess of myself, lately i havent been the person I wanna be. I just got caught up in all his lies and the sweet things he told me i didnt even realize he was just going to hurt me until he changed and started treating me like crap that`s when I started to realize it and I really wish I would of realized it from the beginning because honestly I can`t handle this pain and hurt! Way to many guys have put me through this and I wish I would of known he was going to do the same thing!
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
did u tell him that?
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
I won`t know though because he hardly ever answers me when I text him first and then when he texts me he gets mad at me for not texting him first and im like uhh i did you just never answer and ill try but I can only handle so much until I break! </3
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
maybe try texting him is this ur way of telling me u don't like me? if he doesn't answer then u know he doesn't and if he does answer and says he does like u then he does....please stay strong honey i know u can get thru this <3
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
I highly doubt it! I kind of feel like this is his way of telling me to leave him alone. So I guess that`s what I gotta do! No matter how bad I want to because I can`t keep hurting myself like this.
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
guys can be annoying and confusing but maybe when u sed u needed to talk to him he thought u meant about the "i wish u were over" thing and he didn't want to talk about it sooo maybe try just saying that ur grandma died and u need someone to talk to
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
But the thing is he does like me because that`s what he told me unless he was just telling me what I wanted to hear. Like if he doesn` t like me then he shouldnt of said it! I would rather be hurt with the truth then satisfied with a lie and thank you
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
u have to prepare urself for anything...if u want to keep chasing him that bad and u think u really can't stop chasing him then chase him...BUT u have to prepare ur heart for anything....if u prepare ur heart (as in accept the fact that he might not like u) thenit might ease the heart break a little...and maybe next time u can try telling him first what is bothering u like say my grandma just died I'm really upset can we talk? u can try that...and I'm so sorry about your grandma i know how it feels I'm so sorry
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
So yesterday I was in Lubbock because my god mother was really sick and she passed away yesterday at around 1:30. Well I broke down into tears and I felt like I had no one to talk to. At around 8 I texted him and said " hey can you talk or are you busy?" and he never answered me. I just don`t know what to do about him anymore I feel like im chasing someone im never going to have a chance with and I feel like I`m just setting myself up for heart break. What do you think I should do? I really don`t want to give up on him but if he keeps treating me like this then i guess i have too. </3
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
no problem I'm here anytime u need me
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
Yes it does very much thank you! (:
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
u just have to be patient...i know how frustrating it can be...just keep in mind that he isn't gone, u never lost him...he still can come back to u and it can mean a good thing...does that help..?
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
yeah it just hurts me because of how hes been treating me and it still bothers me that idk what he meant when he said " I wish you were over"
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
i get it...if ur meant to be together..then he needs time to figure that out
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
yeah I just get this feeling that were meant to be together... maybe that`s why it`s so hard for me to get over him... it`s just complicated
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carol_a015 · 1 decade ago
if he's letting u slip away then he doesn't deserve u
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lostandconfused · 1 decade ago
and then he says he doesn`t want a good thing like this to slip away but it seems like thats exactly what hes letting happen
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