Please Help.
it's nothing huge, but I really need someone's advice!
There's this girl that lives down the street from me. She's nice (most of the time), but she's obsessive and creepy. She will not leave me alone. We were friends when we were younger, and suddenly she just decided that we were friends again. I do not want to be friends with her at all. She texts and calls me nonstop, she comes over my house, uninvited every.single.day (no joke). She knows that I spend 99% of my time at my house so she thinks that she can just invite herself in and just walks up to my room. She gets mad when I have plans. She will not leave me alone, and I honestly haven't disliked someone so much before in my life. She is bi, and I have nothing against her for that, but alll she talks about is lesbian and gay couples and shows me videos of them making out and stuff and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. She also always puts her hand on my leg.

I've always let people like this run my life and let them take away my happiness. Ever since she's been doing this I've been really unhappy and have been taking my anger over her out on the people i love. I honestly can not take it anymore. but my mom is making me be friends with her. She thinks that if I tell the girl I don't want to be friends it will upset her and that's not okay with her. but being "friends" with her makes me unhappy and I know I probably sounds stupid, but I can't take this anymore.

& I know this is long.... but what I need help with is:

should I just tell her I don't want to be friends with her?
( I don't want to be mean and hurt her but my happiness is important too and I'm tired of letting people take that away from me)

pleaaaaase help me, I don't know what to do :(

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0 faves · 7 comments · Aug 2, 2012 10:19pm

tobefrank · 1 decade ago
Tell her you're not comfortable with the things she's doing and talk to your mum about what she's saying. But she might not really have any friends, so just be careful with what you say.
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craziirose · 1 decade ago
Next time you meet her, /talk/ to her. Tell her how you feel, and you don't want to be friends anymore. Be honest.
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Lisa913 · 1 decade ago
*calmy. Sorry, if there's mistakes in that v, I'm on an iPad!
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Lisa913 · 1 decade ago
You could tell her cal my (don't be rude about it though) that you just don't want to be friends with her. If she asks why, say that your personalities clash or that you don't know her well enough to hang around with her that often. Also tell your mom that you reallllly don't like her, and that always comes in uninvited and you just don't like that. Ignore most of her texts and try not to make too much conversation or just keep the conversation short and simple. If she calls you, tell her that you're busy. You may feel mean, but she shouldn't be like that to you :) good luck. Just start letting you guys drift away from each other
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strong4ever · 1 decade ago
yes, you should tell her. Being honest with her is the best thing to do. Tell her you feel like you have just grown apart. Tell her how you feel.
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madlove16 · 1 decade ago
would you ever think about just telling her you need your space? that might work
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jesusismylovexox · 1 decade ago
um i would DEFINITELY tell her you're not comfortable with her.
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