Noticing_the_invisable
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1 decade ago
i would ignore the messages for now and then see if its still happening tomorrow... if it is then tell somebody. hopelesscrusher is right, he is sexually harrassing you. I know you want to stay friends but.... do you really want him to be saying stuff liike that?
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n_kitty
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1 decade ago
well first off you need to tell him to stop, like now. and if he really is a good friend he will stop, if he doesnt you have to tell someone, its sexual harassment and is illigal.
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BetterThanRevenge
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1 decade ago
Just tell him you dont feel right. Ive been there. Tell him youre 13 and you think you are too young for that. Tell him yall broke up for a reason. If that doesnt work, then tell him that he is gonna ruin y'alls friendship.
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zebraobsessiv
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1 decade ago
I think you really need to say... "Um, hey, we're kind of EXes... as in OVER. We're friends and that's all." If he doesnt hear the direct version of you telling him to stop, he wont. And remind him that you're THIRTEEN. Because no boy should be saying that at 13. Good luck, I hope it works out.
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Hopelesscrusher
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1 decade ago
Okay well he is sexually harassing you. If you haven't done so already, tell him to stop. If it doesn't stop you need to do something about it. But if you really don't want to ruin your friendship, don't tell your parents. But you could tell him "Look you're sexually harassing me, please stop or I'm going to do something about this. I don't want to jepoardize our friendship though." You could say something like that.
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scarletismybff · 1 decade ago
Its actually really creepy how similar this situation is to the one I'm in. all you have to do is say no, and tell him he's better than that, and hopefully he'll get the message.
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