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Hey witty
girls,
I really need some
advice. I've been dating this guy for a little over five months
and I am completely head over heels in love with him. He lives
two hours away but we see each other about once a month. Well he
came over for a few days and everything was perfect, and we were
fine. But when we were driving him home, he was letting me go
through his phone and I noticed he was texting his ex. He tried
to take the phone from me at that point, but I looked anyway. She
had sent him a picture of her with her shirt off. He didn't ask
her to send it in the first place but after she sent it he said
"you should continue;)" (She didn't end up sending any more). I
broke down and started bawling my eyes out at that point. As part
of my Christmas present, he wrote me this 8 page letter about how
much he loves me and he wants to marry me and he can't wait til
we can see each other everyday. When I started crying, he did
too, and said he meant every word he wrote in that letter, and
that he just made a mistake. He keeps apologizing and I really
don't think he'll ever do something like this again. He promised
that that was the only time it ever happened, and that he would
never talk to her again. I decided to stay with him. I honestly
love him so much and can't even bear the thought of losing him.
Do you think I made the right choice? Please, i really need
advice.
LONG BUT PLEASE READ. I NEED YOU GIRLS.
3 faves · 8 comments · Dec 30, 2011 11:09pm
KrisKayLove
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1 decade ago
I think you made the right choice. I'm in a long distance relationship right now (He lives over 800 miles away) and one night he got drunk and kissed another girl. Immediately after though he apologized and broke down and we ended up talking all night about stuff and how he truly loves me and how he was so sorry and stuff like that. So in my opinion one mistake shouldn't dictate your entire relationship. I do believe that you made the right choice to forgive him. Because I'm in the same boat as you, I can't even imagine my life without him. Hope I helped, comment on my profile if you ever want to talk more :)
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JustAnotherPictureToBurn
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1 decade ago
i think you made the right desision, being that you have a lot of feelings for him..but it's hard to trust someone after they do something like that..i'd be careful..if you ever need someone to talk to,,i'm here..(:
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amaryllisxwinthrop
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1 decade ago
if he's smart enough to realize what he did was wrong, and man enough to apologize, and sweet enough to write that letter, you made the right choice. dont worry
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sopherx362
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1 decade ago
you definitely made the right decision! never let go what you truely love(:
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thisismywitty
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1 decade ago
You made the rite choice :)
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alliecat
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1 decade ago
ok, so i think u should forgive him this time. no one in a relationship is perfect...i promise. if it happens again, let him go. but this time since its his "first offense" i vote forgive and forget
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alittle2kate
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1 decade ago
yes, I believe you made the right decision.. I would've done the same
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lyssaluuxox · 1 decade ago
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thank you guys so much:) you made me feel so much better about my decision