PLEASE READ!
tomorrow,
I'm breaking up with Nolan, my boyfriend. The reason(s) I am
is because he is being a really big jerk towards me. He never
talks to me in school or on the bus anymore. On the bus the other
day, He sat with me, but slapped this other girls thigh the whole
time, and didn't even look at me. I'm tired of being
treated like crap. So, since he's been talking to every girl
except his own girlfriend, instead of saving him a seat with
me, I'm going to sit with my friend Jared, who I've known
forever, to give him a taste of his own medicine. The last time I
dumped him, he smiled and laughed while I bawled my eyes out.
Then, after homeroom, he came up to me with tears in his eyes and
said; "Are we really over?!" And we talked it out and
things were okay, but now its not. Its back to how it was before,
maybe even worse. I don't deserve this from him at all, he
doesn't even look at me. We have been dating for 7 months. I
am finally drawing the line, I'm tired of his bullshit. My
moms bestfriend told me; "He doesn't know how to
handle a relationship. You need to teach him, because that's
all he's doing now, is learning. But you may not be the girl
he should be learning with, I think you're too good for him.
You see, he doesn't know that they don't react the way
that girls do. Girl get an ACTUAL pain in their chest when their
feeling are hurt, and they might cry. Boys on the other hand, get
mad at anything and everything people do. So they don't know
how it feels to be hurt like we do." That, made me feel a
little more confident. But, still, I think that saying goodbye is
the right choice... If he can prove to me he can change, and not
be such a dick, and things will go back to the way they were,
then I might take him back. But I have mixed feelings and I'm
confused right now. :/
MAJOR VENT... If you're still reading this, Thank
you!!!
♥
38 faves · 10 comments · Oct 11, 2011 7:56pm
irock1345
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1 decade ago
i think you should. yesterday, i dumped my boyfriend because he kept grabbing other girls, and his friend told me he was talking about me behind my back. (although i did stay home today for good measure) i think it was the right choice, and if he keeps this up you're too good for him
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cupcakeboo123
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1 decade ago
):
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findyourloveee
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1 decade ago
Dump him and don't take him back because people never permanently change.. I've been tellin ya this all week
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Mzyeee
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1 decade ago
So blurry man. But go girllyyyy
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lala243
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1 decade ago
): he doesnt deserve u boo boo ! Love u <3
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live_breath_swim8
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1 decade ago
DUDE MY BEST FRIEND HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WITH A GUY NAMED NOLAN TO and imma tell you what i told her, sump his sorry ..
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xblueeyesx0
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1 decade ago
^ agreeeed (:
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livvxyourxlifeee
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1 decade ago
I know break ups are hard, but this jerk doesn't deserve you to give him the time of day... I think breaking up with him is definitely the right choice(:
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xxserena
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1 decade ago
you go girlll!
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coolstorybro_gotweetaboutit · 1 decade ago
breaking up with him is definatley the right thing to do . and if he does "change" then its ovbiously your choice to take him back . i personally wouldnt .. a tiger never changes his stripes .
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