tigerkid · 1 decade ago
My friend had the same problem. A teacher read a note between us that had stuff about cutting in it. The guidance counselor told her parents, and she was in a lot of trouble. They just yelled at her. Then, in an art class she was tapping her pencil on her hand, trying to think. And the teacher like told the guidance counselor she was trying to hurt herself with it. I was so madd.
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wapples · 1 decade ago
go to a teacher/school staff member that u can legit TRUST WITH YOUR LIFE. you can talk to them and like @BeYondLyes said, they sign a confidentiality contract. i dont speak to councilors because they are EVIL!
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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
love you too
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Leoniecridland · 1 decade ago
Love you charl<3<3

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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
aw, thank you, that's really sweet! :)
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BabyCakes090 · 1 decade ago
And p.s. your beautiful stop cutting :)
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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
haha, yeah i would love too;) I really just don't know what to say to her though? she said to me 'i'm going to tell mrs...' + i was like, hold on a minute, I know she's someone who helps people too, but i don't remember giving you permission to do that? I wish I'd said that. But I really don't have the guts:/
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BeYondLyes · 1 decade ago
No, that doesn't make it right at all. It should be your decision to tell your mom or not to, and she shouldn't force you to do anything. In addition, telling the other teachers is just plain mean. It's your business and if you wanted them to know, you would have told them yourself. I think you should write her a strongly-worded letter.
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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
but thank you for your advice:)
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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
well that's the thing, she's not exactly a counselor so i don't know weather she has signed anything. She's just someone in school who helps people with their problems and talks about them but at the same time it doesn't make it right that she's literally forcing me to tell my mum if i don't want to, does it?
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GreenieXD · 1 decade ago
I know!:( she doesn't understand
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BeYondLyes · 1 decade ago
The counselor has to sign a contract that says she must keep all information confidential. Call her out on her crap, and tell a friend's mom or an adult you trust and they can help you.
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BabyCakes090 · 1 decade ago
She shouldn't do that. In my school sessions with the counsler are kept between the student and the counsler
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