So my ex and I have dated 3 times.
He could never seem to stay interested. Like he lost interest and then gained it back right after we'd break up everytime. So this last time I decided that he had used up all his chances and that I was tired of him changing his mind about me as if I wasnt good enough. I told him that it hurt to have a guy change his mind about you over and over again. I decided that I was just gonna stop talking to him period. So I did. But he still wanted to be friends and so he keeps trying and trying to get me to just be friends but I just can't. I really can't. I don't want to go through him changing his mind about me again. He says he won't but how am I supposed to trust him or his feelings? He's changed his mind so many times that I just expect it to happen again. We've talked about this over and over again and it seems to me like he still has feelings for me. I don't know if I'm doing the right thing... and I know this is for secrets but I really need some advice... ♥