If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him
stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.Allow your intuition (or spirit) to
save you from heartache.Stop trying to change yourselves for a
relationship that's not meant to be.Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deservethen heck no, you can't "be
friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.Don't stay because you think "it
will get better." You'll be mad at
yourselfa year later for staying when things
are not better.The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.Avoid men who've got a bunch of
children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant,Why would he treat you any
differently?Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats
you.If something bothers you, speak
up.Never let a man know everything. He
will use it against you later.You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are...even if he hasmore education or in a better job. Do
not make him into a quasi-god.He is a man, nothing more nothing
less.Never let a man define who you
are.Never borrow someone else's
man.Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll
cheat on you.A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two-way
street.You need time to heal between
relationships