love_020310
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1 decade ago
i havent told her about it cause she will flip out on me if she finds out that i slept with him... so im just going to wait till i go to the doctors and then if i am find a way to tell hr... its bad enough i just had to lie to her cause my brtoher was starting a bunch of drama and said something to her about it and she would flip out on me for sleeping with him like i said. my dad knows about the possible pregnancy and he's not as mad as i thought he would be. but I dont know. he's an awesome guy but we really do need to sit down and talk face to face whether i'm pregnant or not. see we actually broke up a little while ago but we still talk. and like it kind of feels like we are in a relationship but not really. like we talk every couple days and like when we talk one night he'll be all sweet and stuff and then the next night he's being an and we're fighting. I have come to the conclusion that if i am pregnant i'm going to tell him that it's either we keep it and he and i can work on things or he just is'nt going to have a part of the baby's life. I dont wanna be pregnant though. i'm still in high school. i need to graduate before i do that. I dont know. i'm going to figure this out. i go to the drs on Wednesday.. he dont even know that yet though cause he wont take time out of his day to call me and talk to me for like 10 minutes.. we usually talks when he gets off work at night and that's usually really late so one of us end up falling asleep before we actually get to talk about anything important.. so I dont know. hopefully we'll figure this out.
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love_020310
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1 decade ago
well see here's the thing, he has got 2 dui's on his record so he lost his license for a year and that was back in december. but I think he's lost his license till next february or march.. and i'm not getting my license till i'm 18 due to the fact that i dont have th money to pay for driving classes so we really have no way to see each other! when we were together he had one of his friends bring him but she wasn't very dependable. i would love for him to go to my dr's appt with me, but he has to work and my mom doesn't know about him and she is the one taking me.. so that wont work out.
with the pregnancy factor, if i am him and i are going to sit down and talk about it face to face and figure out what to do. i dont care what he says i'm not aborting it. it's our faults not that baby's. if anything i'm going to give it up for adoption and if i'm not i think i'm just going to tell him that it's best we don't talk right now. i need to get over him. i can't sit here and put myself through this for nothing.
also, with us being together we could be together in a couple months but our long distant relationship(as he calls it) just doesn't work out so well so it'd kind of have to wait till i graduate school next year and move to the city he lives in! but still it's a very hard situation.
but thanks<3 Witty girls are amazing (: reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
i took one test but it didnt work right so i just made a dr's appt which isn't till next week.. but i'm still kind of freaked out about it...
but with him he means everything to me. i fell in love with him the first time we hung out. he and i locked eyes everytime we saw each other, even before we started hanging out or talking. sad thing is he is older than me. i'm 17 he's 23 and he's the one that is acting immature about it. i mean i know he isn't stable enough to be a father but there is no reason to get an abortion. i am soooo against those. and he says he is against them too but to a point... i dont know what to do at all. i just need to figure it out soon.
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love_020310
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1 decade ago
hello, you commented on my profile back in april and i didnt realize it lol. i'm the one on the right (: but thanks (: reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
I told him(: he doesn't care. Thanks for helping thouhg(: reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
I'm not realy sure yet if he's the jealous type. But I will find out. But yeah i'll make sure I keep reminding him of that. reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
Thanks. I just feel like if I tell him he's not going to want anything to do with me. I dont want him to feel like i'm sloppy seconds. Or any like that. You know what I mean? reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
yeah only a day. we only actually dated for a day but in that time we decided we were better of fwb. but then its just gone down hill since then. reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
You're welcome :) reply
love_020310
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1 decade ago
yeah :( my mom was fine with him while we were dating but then we broke up and she started hating him.. :( sad thing is she never met him :( reply
love_020310 · 1 decade ago
what are you up too?
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
heyy theere!! (:
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
heyy! (:
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
i havent told her about it cause she will flip out on me if she finds out that i slept with him... so im just going to wait till i go to the doctors and then if i am find a way to tell hr... its bad enough i just had to lie to her cause my brtoher was starting a bunch of drama and said something to her about it and she would flip out on me for sleeping with him like i said. my dad knows about the possible pregnancy and he's not as mad as i thought he would be. but I dont know. he's an awesome guy but we really do need to sit down and talk face to face whether i'm pregnant or not. see we actually broke up a little while ago but we still talk. and like it kind of feels like we are in a relationship but not really. like we talk every couple days and like when we talk one night he'll be all sweet and stuff and then the next night he's being an and we're fighting. I have come to the conclusion that if i am pregnant i'm going to tell him that it's either we keep it and he and i can work on things or he just is'nt going to have a part of the baby's life. I dont wanna be pregnant though. i'm still in high school. i need to graduate before i do that. I dont know. i'm going to figure this out. i go to the drs on Wednesday.. he dont even know that yet though cause he wont take time out of his day to call me and talk to me for like 10 minutes.. we usually talks when he gets off work at night and that's usually really late so one of us end up falling asleep before we actually get to talk about anything important.. so I dont know. hopefully we'll figure this out.
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
well see here's the thing, he has got 2 dui's on his record so he lost his license for a year and that was back in december. but I think he's lost his license till next february or march.. and i'm not getting my license till i'm 18 due to the fact that i dont have th money to pay for driving classes so we really have no way to see each other! when we were together he had one of his friends bring him but she wasn't very dependable. i would love for him to go to my dr's appt with me, but he has to work and my mom doesn't know about him and she is the one taking me.. so that wont work out.
with the pregnancy factor, if i am him and i are going to sit down and talk about it face to face and figure out what to do. i dont care what he says i'm not aborting it. it's our faults not that baby's. if anything i'm going to give it up for adoption and if i'm not i think i'm just going to tell him that it's best we don't talk right now. i need to get over him. i can't sit here and put myself through this for nothing.
also, with us being together we could be together in a couple months but our long distant relationship(as he calls it) just doesn't work out so well so it'd kind of have to wait till i graduate school next year and move to the city he lives in! but still it's a very hard situation.
but thanks<3 Witty girls are amazing (:
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
i took one test but it didnt work right so i just made a dr's appt which isn't till next week.. but i'm still kind of freaked out about it...
but with him he means everything to me. i fell in love with him the first time we hung out. he and i locked eyes everytime we saw each other, even before we started hanging out or talking. sad thing is he is older than me. i'm 17 he's 23 and he's the one that is acting immature about it. i mean i know he isn't stable enough to be a father but there is no reason to get an abortion. i am soooo against those. and he says he is against them too but to a point... i dont know what to do at all. i just need to figure it out soon.
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
hello, you commented on my profile back in april and i didnt realize it lol. i'm the one on the right (: but thanks (:
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
I told him(: he doesn't care. Thanks for helping thouhg(:
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
I'm not realy sure yet if he's the jealous type. But I will find out. But yeah i'll make sure I keep reminding him of that.
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
Thanks. I just feel like if I tell him he's not going to want anything to do with me. I dont want him to feel like i'm sloppy seconds. Or any like that. You know what I mean?
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
thanks :)
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
yeah only a day. we only actually dated for a day but in that time we decided we were better of fwb. but then its just gone down hill since then.
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
You're welcome :)
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love_020310 · 1 decade ago
yeah :( my mom was fine with him while we were dating but then we broke up and she started hating him.. :( sad thing is she never met him :(
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