To the one who loves her next,
She’s terrified of spiders. So when you’re out late with friends
and she texts you freaking out because there’s one on her
window, please go kill it. She won’t sleep otherwise.
She is a total textbook introvert. She won’t reply for hours and
sometimes you won’t see her for a week. You will take this
personally. Don’t. She’s simply taking care of herself and she’ll
tell you how much she missed you while she was away.
She’ll get very jealous. My god, she gets so jealous. Those
brown eyes will turn a deep green. She hates that about herself,
and she doesn’t mean to do it. Remember, she loves you.
Reassure her that you love her too.
On that topic, she needs constant reassurance. Tell her you love
her and mean it. If you can’t do that, leave. She deserves more
than that.
There will be nights when she goes out and drinks a little too much.
She’ll call you to bring her home. When you do, she’ll try to keep
you up all night by tickling you and repeating “I love you and I’m
sorry I’m annoying.” She’s not annoying. But make sure she has
plenty of water and don’t let her pass out until she drinks it, or she
will be miserable in the morning.
She is the most independent woman I know. But she’s so insecure,
it still breaks my heart. So when she starts an argument with “you
don’t love me.” Do not get upset. Remind her you do and the reasons
why. She’ll come around.
The cat comes first. Always. Don’t ever think otherwise.
Make her tea and remember the way she takes her coffee. She will notice.
When she’s having an anxiety attack, wrap her up in your arms and rub
her back. Tell her she’s safe and remind her that she has medication if
she needs it.
If you cannot treat her like royalty, let someone else. That girl
deserves the world.
Losing her is a pain you will never shake. Your world will come crashing
down on you and those pieces won’t ever fit the way they used to. Don’t
let her go.
She will love you with all she’s got. Please give her the same.
I am begging you to not hurt her. She is golden. Don’t let that shine die out.
Give her your all and she’ll return the favor. You will never have to ask the universe for anything ever again.
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— (via addisonsmontgomery)
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