advice4U
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1 decade ago
well, not all couples have songs, so u dont HAVE to have one. but if you want one, no one can tell you what you should have, it will just come naturally. what about the very first song u guys heard as a couple? reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
your welcome. any time. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
wow. im really sorry to hear that. well you have to stay with him through it all, i dont mean stay his gf if u dnt like him, but be there 4 him as a friend. you have to tell him that people care about him so if he should commit suicide, then everyone who knows him will be greatly dissatisfied, maybe even depressed too. but as for the parents, theres not much anyone can do to make them stop drinking, unless someone got them to go to rehab and quit, but you -or your bf- should take it to a school counselor, or a therapist. it wouldnt hurt to try, and convince him to let his parents know how he feels -when their sober of course- so they can understand the people in their surroundings that they are affecting. and fpr the 2 year old, tell ur bf that he needs to stay with his baby sibling. like as he gets older and starts to understand, he needs to be there to explain and to give comfort to. again, im really sorry about this situation. i really hope someone works it out and helps your bf's parents. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
your welcome. i love to help any time. and im sorry about your grandma, i know how you feel, my aunt has cancer too, and shes getting worse every day reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
im sorry that your friend has changed in that way. make new friends. you need as many friends as possible to get you through school. start talking to new girls/guys that youve never talked to before. sit with other ppl at lunch, on the bus, anywhere. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
im really sorry your mom is doing this to you. try to talk it out with her. for the guy thing, love is love and she cant take that away from you. but if she says no to something, dont disobey her. next time the subject comes up, tell her something like "mom, i really like him and you cant take him away from me. i wont disobey you, but im seeing him and you cant do anything about it. do you realize how much youre hurting me?" hopefully shell understand. as for the friends on your binder situation, tell her theyre your friends, and you love them. she cant do anything about that either.
again, im really sorry about this. if nothing else works, get an appointment to the school counselor, theyll help you and your mom work this out too. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
well, i highly doubt that anyone couldnt have a personality. you mentiontion you are 'rockerish' thats all part of personality. do your freinds have anything in common with that? even if they dont, its okay because that makes you original. dont listen to those people that tell you lies. you need to stay confident, everyone has a personality. everyone likes something. just be yourself and dont let anyone get to you. i know that you can be independent-everyone can- if you try. dont think negatively and DONT go emo and cut yourself, trust me it will make life hashly worse. be yourself, let yourself shine, do watever it takes. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
ahh, okay ive been there. you should get to know eachother better. like, for example, what does he like to do? any sports? video games? afterschool stuff? and you two should find stuff that you have in common. if you really like him, then DONT give up, keep him. just find a good quiet place to talk, stay afterschool with him to work on homework or something. hang out. love takes its own course, so dont rush anything. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
well u should go to your parent and tell them about your teacher. if that doesnt help go to the principal, or someone you can trust. i dont really know your teacher, but my teachers embaress me in front of the class to and they dont do it to be mean. so kinda in a way i know how u feel. i think you should try to look on the bright side of things and tell someone about ur situation. dont be a person who just hides her face in the back. do something about it.
i really hope ur problem will work out and dont get frustrated if it doesnt the 1st time around, just keep trying. i hope i helped u with this dilemma and that u will come to me again if needed. reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
your welcome. i really hope it works out! reply
advice4U
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1 decade ago
okay, well i know how u feel because ive been in a relationship like that before. you should keep talking to him. i know it doesnt feel like it, but usually when a guy likes a girl, they dont just stop liking her, they just act like they dont like her. so keep trying, and if he asks u out again, try to make as much contact as possible. talk to him. hang out with him. play sports with him. whatever it takes. and remember to be flirty with him, the guys tend to like that. ;] reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
well, not all couples have songs, so u dont HAVE to have one. but if you want one, no one can tell you what you should have, it will just come naturally. what about the very first song u guys heard as a couple?
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advice4U · 1 decade ago
your welcome. any time.
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advice4U · 1 decade ago
wow. im really sorry to hear that. well you have to stay with him through it all, i dont mean stay his gf if u dnt like him, but be there 4 him as a friend. you have to tell him that people care about him so if he should commit suicide, then everyone who knows him will be greatly dissatisfied, maybe even depressed too. but as for the parents, theres not much anyone can do to make them stop drinking, unless someone got them to go to rehab and quit, but you -or your bf- should take it to a school counselor, or a therapist. it wouldnt hurt to try, and convince him to let his parents know how he feels -when their sober of course- so they can understand the people in their surroundings that they are affecting. and fpr the 2 year old, tell ur bf that he needs to stay with his baby sibling. like as he gets older and starts to understand, he needs to be there to explain and to give comfort to. again, im really sorry about this situation. i really hope someone works it out and helps your bf's parents.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
your welcome. i love to help any time. and im sorry about your grandma, i know how you feel, my aunt has cancer too, and shes getting worse every day
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
im sorry that your friend has changed in that way. make new friends. you need as many friends as possible to get you through school. start talking to new girls/guys that youve never talked to before. sit with other ppl at lunch, on the bus, anywhere.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
im really sorry your mom is doing this to you. try to talk it out with her. for the guy thing, love is love and she cant take that away from you. but if she says no to something, dont disobey her. next time the subject comes up, tell her something like "mom, i really like him and you cant take him away from me. i wont disobey you, but im seeing him and you cant do anything about it. do you realize how much youre hurting me?" hopefully shell understand. as for the friends on your binder situation, tell her theyre your friends, and you love them. she cant do anything about that either.
again, im really sorry about this. if nothing else works, get an appointment to the school counselor, theyll help you and your mom work this out too.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
well, i highly doubt that anyone couldnt have a personality. you mentiontion you are 'rockerish' thats all part of personality. do your freinds have anything in common with that? even if they dont, its okay because that makes you original. dont listen to those people that tell you lies. you need to stay confident, everyone has a personality. everyone likes something. just be yourself and dont let anyone get to you. i know that you can be independent-everyone can- if you try. dont think negatively and DONT go emo and cut yourself, trust me it will make life hashly worse. be yourself, let yourself shine, do watever it takes.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
ahh, okay ive been there. you should get to know eachother better. like, for example, what does he like to do? any sports? video games? afterschool stuff? and you two should find stuff that you have in common. if you really like him, then DONT give up, keep him. just find a good quiet place to talk, stay afterschool with him to work on homework or something. hang out. love takes its own course, so dont rush anything.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
well u should go to your parent and tell them about your teacher. if that doesnt help go to the principal, or someone you can trust. i dont really know your teacher, but my teachers embaress me in front of the class to and they dont do it to be mean. so kinda in a way i know how u feel. i think you should try to look on the bright side of things and tell someone about ur situation. dont be a person who just hides her face in the back. do something about it.
i really hope ur problem will work out and dont get frustrated if it doesnt the 1st time around, just keep trying. i hope i helped u with this dilemma and that u will come to me again if needed.
reply
advice4U · 1 decade ago
your welcome. i really hope it works out!
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advice4U · 1 decade ago
okay, well i know how u feel because ive been in a relationship like that before. you should keep talking to him. i know it doesnt feel like it, but usually when a guy likes a girl, they dont just stop liking her, they just act like they dont like her. so keep trying, and if he asks u out again, try to make as much contact as possible. talk to him. hang out with him. play sports with him. whatever it takes. and remember to be flirty with him, the guys tend to like that. ;]
reply