JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Ofcourse :) I like listening/helping others. If you need somebody to talk to, I'm always lending an ear ^^ Let me know how it goess! reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
If you feel he is telling you the truth, i think the best thing to do is step back and see what happens. Give it some time. If you feel he has not stopped, I would snoop a bit and confront him about it. When you do confront him though, make sure your not mean about it. He will automatically get defensive and you will get nowhere. Be sure to let him know how you know he is better than all that junk. reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Whats with the caps o.o. And i agree he owes her an apology as well but he owes you one too. That is just my opinion, you don't have to agree. I would be if a guy told me he loved me and had a girlfriend. Its like, well, "you don't love me enough to break up with her". Sounds like he is playing you both. What a douche. reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
AH. I think it is very courageous of you to care so much about your friend. Hang in there. If you need somebody to talk to, just ask :) reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Awh. How come? =/. I'm actually doing really well, thanks! :) reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
I can see you are not very sure of what you want to do. However, If you decide you want to take it in your own hands to "get the guy". I can give you some advice. First, what you need to do is create a solid friendship with him. Not just friends but Best friends. So, that YOUR the person he goes to when he needs advice or a cheering up. Automatically, making you both closer. Big plus. Remember, Love is Friendship on fire. Boundaries are important in this. You don't want to seem easy. I've been in this situation twice and the best way to get this guy's attention is to have him chase you. Spark his interest by playing hard to get. Start hanging out more/ talking. When he starts being extremely flirty..flirt back but when he goes to kiss you, turn your head then giggle. Get what i mean? You can even slide in a kiss when he least expects it. Many guys liked to be wow'd by a girl. Keep him guessing and wanting more, it works. Before you know it, you got him. If you need any further advice, just ask reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Hey, how are you ? :D reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
It would not hurt to talk about with him. Just watch HOW you bring it up. If you act as if your angry, he will automatically get defensive and you will get nowhere. Just tell him about how this girl keeps bragging about how he flirts with her all the time. Don't act as if you believe it but also, don't act as if you don't believe it either. Let him talk. Us girls like to jump to assumptions. Communication is the key reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Aww. I'm happy for you. reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
Call jenny, fatty. :D reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
I understand you like him. Who hasn't been there? Its just sometimes a person is not going to feel the same way back. And it sucks, again, been there lol. He has no reason to hate you :/ and you deserve much better than being ignored. And i have to add that "yourveryugly" probably spends all of her time infront of a computer and is even more insecure than most girls posting on this site. Needless to say, I think your pretty. If you want to chat some more let me know :) Take care reply
JessicaLynn
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1 decade ago
:) Please do. Good luck !! reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Ofcourse :) I like listening/helping others. If you need somebody to talk to, I'm always lending an ear ^^ Let me know how it goess!
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
If you feel he is telling you the truth, i think the best thing to do is step back and see what happens. Give it some time. If you feel he has not stopped, I would snoop a bit and confront him about it. When you do confront him though, make sure your not mean about it. He will automatically get defensive and you will get nowhere. Be sure to let him know how you know he is better than all that junk.
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Whats with the caps o.o. And i agree he owes her an apology as well but he owes you one too. That is just my opinion, you don't have to agree. I would be if a guy told me he loved me and had a girlfriend. Its like, well, "you don't love me enough to break up with her". Sounds like he is playing you both. What a douche.
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
AH. I think it is very courageous of you to care so much about your friend. Hang in there. If you need somebody to talk to, just ask :)
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Awh. How come? =/. I'm actually doing really well, thanks! :)
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
I can see you are not very sure of what you want to do. However, If you decide you want to take it in your own hands to "get the guy". I can give you some advice. First, what you need to do is create a solid friendship with him. Not just friends but Best friends. So, that YOUR the person he goes to when he needs advice or a cheering up. Automatically, making you both closer. Big plus. Remember, Love is Friendship on fire. Boundaries are important in this. You don't want to seem easy. I've been in this situation twice and the best way to get this guy's attention is to have him chase you. Spark his interest by playing hard to get. Start hanging out more/ talking. When he starts being extremely flirty..flirt back but when he goes to kiss you, turn your head then giggle. Get what i mean? You can even slide in a kiss when he least expects it. Many guys liked to be wow'd by a girl. Keep him guessing and wanting more, it works. Before you know it, you got him. If you need any further advice, just ask
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Hey, how are you ? :D
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JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
It would not hurt to talk about with him. Just watch HOW you bring it up. If you act as if your angry, he will automatically get defensive and you will get nowhere. Just tell him about how this girl keeps bragging about how he flirts with her all the time. Don't act as if you believe it but also, don't act as if you don't believe it either. Let him talk. Us girls like to jump to assumptions. Communication is the key
reply
JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Aww. I'm happy for you.
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JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
Call jenny, fatty. :D
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JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
I understand you like him. Who hasn't been there? Its just sometimes a person is not going to feel the same way back. And it sucks, again, been there lol. He has no reason to hate you :/ and you deserve much better than being ignored. And i have to add that "yourveryugly" probably spends all of her time infront of a computer and is even more insecure than most girls posting on this site. Needless to say, I think your pretty. If you want to chat some more let me know :) Take care
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JessicaLynn · 1 decade ago
:) Please do. Good luck !!
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