ok so one of my best friends is a lesbian, but she met this guy, and he was like her exception or s/t but then they broke up but then they got back together and he kissed her the next day and when he did, she was like, "i'M A LESBIAN" and she talked to her counselor about it and she was like, "i'm a lesbian with a boyfriend???" and i think that's why she's my favorite person ever