Black woman: *wears her hair natural*
people: omg ew why would you do that you look like a slave how are you ever going to get a man when your hair looks nappy nobody wants a girl with nappy hair what about a job you look so unprofessional you need to do something with your hair you how do you expect people to ever respect you?  

Black woman: *wears a weave*
people: LOL look at this ratchet b|tch wearin a weave because she cant grow her own hair do you even have hair under there i mean do you even wear your real hair out at all i hate weaves its like false advertising i dont see why you'd wear fake hair when you could just have your own.

black woman: *gets a perm* 
people:why do you want to be white why do you hate yourself so much to be burning your hair out with that creamy crack every 4-6 weeks and it cant even be healthy for your hair or your scalp you need to let it go and embrace who you really are i hope that in time you come to accept yourself and what God has given you.