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hey guys i am coming to you for advice!! please help!! i know this isn't really what witty is meant for but i have nowhere else to go!!
so about 4 days ago now my (now ex)boyfriend and i broke up.
the last conversation we had before the break up was totally fine, nothing was wrong.
he asked if i wanted anything when he visited korea (his home country) in a month
and it ended with him saying "i love you" ((it wasn't the first time he'd said it but i find it important that the last thing he said was that)
we didn't interact for the rest of saturday.
at 3 am on sunday he sent me three frantic texts that seemed to be him having a breakdown because he thought he was too protective/possessive basically 
he said in the last text "can we meet up and talk about this because we really need to talk"
when i answered the next day, he went from meeting up and talking to saying we needed to take a break
which he said through a text message
i was having a rough time dealing with it and i guess a few people told him because later in the day he texted me in a weird attempt at comforting me and ended it with "i'm sure you'll find a much better man bye"
that is the last thing he said to me. (unless you count a single text from him asking me to get one particular friend to stop harrassing him about our break up)
so i assumed we were on semi-good terms
i guess not
a day and a half after dumping me, he decides to block me on facebook and block my number from texting him (just texting, not calling)
on tuesday i attempted to call him and talk about what was going on because i had no idea (and still don't) why he broke up with me
his phone was off but he never called back
i tried again today and it rang once and was sent to voicemail.
he messaged one of my friend's on facebook asking if was really that mean and she said yes and then asked why he did it. he never answered.
he didn't even tell his two best friends that he did it. they both found out from me.

i need to talk to him about this, actually talk, because it does not make sense to me at all and i think he owes me an explanation.
you don't go from loving someone and planning into the future with them to breaking up with them and blocking them out completely.

i'm honestly just really confused and i want any tips on how long to leave it before calling and asking him about this?? i still really love him and i kind of want to ask to give us a second chance because i'm sure he still has feelings for me, that doesn't go away over night, but does it even seem worth it?? why did he decide to block me on facebook even though we were on good terms????? i just don't know what to do any advice of any kind is helpful and appreciated!!!!
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hey guys i am coming to you for advice!! please help!! i know

7 faves · 45 comments · Jun 6, 2013 12:05am

rebecca*

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love · breakup · funny · advice · life · idktaggingtobeseen · ireallyneedhelppleaseguys

spottedleaf · 1 decade ago
I really hope you can make it work. I know that personally I'm a major romantic and was heartbroken when my (now ex) boyfriend broke up with me (over text too). I think that maybe he's worried that he isn't good enough for you...could it be that he has any personal issues? It seems that you both care for each other and I hope you can work out what's going on.
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
hi baca if he never grows a sack and explains i'm still up for killing the dude
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
remember we have a gps id love to join u

but yeah the as/sbutt has to go
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cvnt* · 1 decade ago
as sBUTT
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
m m m m mmmmmmmisha
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cvnt* · 1 decade ago
uk that fishy fishy commercial? sometimes i call misha mishy misha ahah hahaha ahahhhaahah aaaaahhhhaaaa
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
mishy mishy

i <4 it
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
anna i know where he lives if you;ll provide transportation i will provide the info
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
ok ill buy a plane ticket to indiana and then we can hotwire a car and road trip it from there
that way we get extra time to plan creative killing techniques
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
alright deal!!
i'm super excited for this when is it going down
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
whenever we receive word from baca that he has still not begun developing balls


which is probably never so
p soon

also bring tooth picks and a bottle of gatorade
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
what why
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
apparently ba11s is a censored word now wt/f

also i like gatorade

and imagine how painful it would be to be stabbed by thousands of tooth picks
why let it be over quick
jinho will die by toothpick impalement
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
omfg anNA
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
i mean its a good ideA
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
it is i agree
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
but can it be the colored toothpicks

those are pretty
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
ya man of c

colored q tips are pretty too
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
too bad they use them for greasy ear stuff
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
that stacy girl from zoey 101 didn't um excuse you
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
i was actually going to bring her up i didn't know if u'd remember her omg

i just remember that she panicked when her turquoise earshcwab was used to clean "ur dirty little ears" so um
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
omF HWO COULD I FORGET THAT I LOVE THAT SHWO I STILL WAYCH IT
SHE'S MY FV REME<NER WHEN SHMICHAEL HIT HER WITH HIS CAR ND SHE LSOT HER LISP I'M CRYING
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
yeAH OMFG I REWATCHED ALL FOUR SEASONS OVER WINTER RBEAK REMEMBER WHEN SHE MADE THAT "DREAM HOUSE" FRO EHER A CHASE AND CHASE BOROKE IT LIKE 7 TIMES
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
yES NSD HE WAS LIKE "OH... OH M YGOD I AM SO SORRY" AMD HE'D PICK UP PART FOF IT AND JUST THROW IN DOWN IN THE MIDDLE OF THE THING AND THEN HE'D RUN AWAY OFMG
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
anD THEN SHE'D START CRYGFOEN LIKE "SHCHASHCE" ((that means chase in schtacy speak))
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
omFG THAT SHOW WAS THE BEST VER
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
wHY DID JAMIE LYNN HAVE TO GET PREGANANTW LIKE I MEAN IDK IF IT WAS HER FAULT BUT LIKE ISNT THAT WHY It GOR CANCELLED

I JUST WANT IT ABACK
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
yES THAT IS WHY IT GOT CANCELLED AND I HATE HER FOR THAT UGHGHGHTHRHYT
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
shE JUST HAD TO START GROWING A SMALL HUMAN
SHE COULDNT WAIT
JUSR
UGHhasdh
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
i mean a 16 yr old should know hOW TO USE A CONDOM
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
she wasn't even 16 sHE WAS LIKE 15 WFTF JAMIE
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
i'm too lazy to keep scrolling down this far omfg
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
we must go deeper
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Chlohoey · 1 decade ago
no:-(((
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
faving/commenting on it because guYs i need this to be seen i need help this is making me really depressed 24/7 i need to know what to do i can't lose him pleaSE
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
pleasepleaseplease guys
i just know there is way to fix this but i dont know what it is i need help
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
guys i need this to be seen i really do i know this is like the numero uno no no on this website but i can't take feeling like this
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cvnt* · 1 decade ago
You know from my story with miranda that i dont do so swell in relationships. I feel as if advice from me is taboo. Either way, i feel as if hes suffering from his own excess emotions and confusion and maybe crap outside you which he doesnt wanna burden you with. Im not taking his side or saying its fair to you, but try to be empathetic and give him some time. When he comes back around, you're gonna have to make him explain himself bc you deserve it & it may take time bc emotions and hes a dude but you have to be willing to wait and be there when he needs it if you love him and want it to work. I know it sucks but i think thats how it works maybe im wrong
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
i hope it is man i don't wanna lose him i can't lose him i hope you're right
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seafoam* · 1 decade ago
That was a pretty d/ck move of him, but I agree with the person below me. If he's rejecting any attempts you make to contact him, he probably needs space and will talk when he's ready. In the meantime, don't overanalyze the situation and torture yourself with what ifs. Surround yourself with the people who care about you, your friends and family, because they're the ones who will always be there for you.

If you need anything, feel free to comment on my profile. (:
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
I suppose that is the best advice. I'm afraid he won't ever talk which is why I think I'm handling this the way I am but tbh you're right.
Thank you!! :)
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seafoam* · 1 decade ago
If he never gives you an explanation, he wasn't worth your time to begin with. You're beautiful, and you'll find the happiness you deserve someday. (:
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
Aw:) You're seriously one of my favourite people on this website I swearrr. Thank you so much!
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bapalapshamaladingdong_who happy birthday! · 1 decade ago
Give him some time dude, eventually he wud say it himself. If not, ask him after a few days. Give him some space.
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rebecca* · 1 decade ago
trUe true thanks!!
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