Soup2434 · 1 decade ago
OMGOMOGMOMGOGMOMG MY MOM IS THE EXACT SAME, WE'RE MUSLIMS SO IM NOT ALOUD TO DO ANY OF THAT STUFF :c Its kind of awkward soemtimes, when ppl takl about Christmas and how joyus and warm it makes them feel, and im just like ... hey everyone :/ i cant believe we have the exact same mom. EXACT.
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
Same exact thing here! It really is horrible. I'm sorry you have to go through that too :(
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Soup2434 · 1 decade ago
It's okay, we can be sad prisoners together :c, I'm Bengali, what are you?
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
:( I got ya, I'm Albanian.
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LauzHeys · 1 decade ago
I actually understand how you feel, it's only this year mum has let me go out of the house, stay strong. it gets better soon <3
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LauzHeys · 1 decade ago
Anytime, I'm always here for you xx
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
:( I'm sorry. But thank you :)
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Pluto* · 1 decade ago
I totally understand what you mean. My mom acts EXACTLY the same as that. Like literally EXACTLY the same. I also know you can't leave at 18. (Your Christmas quote explains it). Cause' guess what? I have the same problem. There's nothing really you can do without getting lectured at. :( But I know exactly how you feel *hugs*
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
:( That's exactly it.
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StormWolf · 1 decade ago
I'm not sure if I could deal with that.... And I thought my mom was strict. :(
Maybe you should tell her how you feel, because sometimes my mother acts similar (Though never that harshly), and it drives me crazy, so it must me hella hard on you. Maybe she doesn't realize how oppressive she is. I mean, it's your life. You deserve the chance to live it the way you want to live it, and if she has a problem with it, it's her job as an adult and a parent to deal with it, as long as your not making terrible choices that might hurt other people.
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StormWolf · 1 decade ago
Yeah. I feel for you, even though I don't understand how hard that would be. But I mean, your gonna have to leave the house one day. Hopefully, you'll be allowed out more often. And if you want to chat, chances are I'm on so just drop in :)
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
I can't just tell her. It's not that simple. It just goes into a lot of other things with my mum. I love her, honestly and she has a good heart but it's just the way she thinks things should be. I don't really know what to do.
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StormWolf · 1 decade ago
Yah. I want to be able to say I understand, but my parents not mind if I hang out with friends and stuff. Eventually, she's going to have to give you more freedom, or you wont know how to function when you leave home, which you will have to do. It's natural for kids to becoem more independent, so I can't imagine what she hopes to accomplish, even though i'm sure she thinks she has your best interests at heart.
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sky* · 1 decade ago
Rewriting my comment 'cause it was messed up the first time.
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You're only 13 and she's probably raising you this way because she thinks it's right and it may or may not have been how she was brought up as a child.
But, on the bright side, when you're 18 you can do whatever the hel/ you want and she won't be able to say a thing about it because legally she won't be able to. c:

Honestly, I believe you can stick out 'till then.
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
I know but the thing is, it's not that simple for me. I wish it was. But if I leave when I'm 18 then I'd probably split up my whole family and lose my mom which I don't want to do. So I honestly don't know what to do. But thanks anyways :) It honestly means a lot.
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sky* · 1 decade ago
Everyone leaves when they're an adult. It's a part of life whether your family likes it or not. Not to sound rude. But....if your family really is that..tough..why don't you call someone who specializes in that kinda thing and try to get your family on the right track?
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
It's just really a lot to explain. And don't worry, I don't take any offense. I'd say the same. But leaving when I'm 18 means more than just leaving. It's complicated :(
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sky* · 1 decade ago
I'm sorry. :c I hope it gets better, though. If I could help you I totally would. <3
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
Thank you :) That means a lot :)
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ReneeLisaaa · 1 decade ago
Oh my gosh that's crazy! I hope she goes a little easier on you! Have you tried just talking to her about it, telling her it upsets you?
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
Trust me, it wouldn't work. I know my mom and it just wouldn't work. I wish it would. :(
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ReneeLisaaa · 1 decade ago
Aw no! Feel free to rant to me Perfect Stranger!
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TouchMyCookiesAndYouDie · 1 decade ago
Aww, it's okay. :) I don't want to bother you because I could go on for ages. But thank you so much for actually caring :)
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ReneeLisaaa · 1 decade ago
Anytime :)
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