i've learned
you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. its
taking me a l - o - n - g time to become the person I want to be. its a-lot
easier to react than think. you should a-l-w-a-y-s-,leave loved ones with loving
words, it may be the last time you see them.that you can keep going, long
after you think you cant. we are responsible for what we do, no matter how,we
feel. that you can either control your a t t i t u d e, or it can control you regard-
less of how hot and steamy, a relationship is the passion fades and there better
be, some thing to take its place. learning to forgive takes practice. there are people
who, love you dearly, they just don't know how to show it. with best friends can
do anything or nothing and still have a great time. that the people,who you expect
to kick you when your down will be the ones who help you back up. sometimes
when you're angry,you have the right to be angry, not to be cruel. true friendship
tends to grow over the distance, same,with true love. just because someone doesn't
love you the way you want them to doesn't mean,they don't love you with all they
have. no matter how much you care some people just wont care back. your families,
wont always be there for you. people who you aren't related to can take care of you,
love you and help you trust people again. no matter how good a friend is they are going,
to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. no matter how
badly your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for grief. our background and circum-
stances may influence who we are but we influence who we become. just because two
people argue doesn't mean then don't love each other, and just because they don't
doesn't mean they do. it takes years to build up trust and only s-e-c-o-n-d-s to destroy,
it. we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. you shouldn't
be to eager to find out a secret. it can change your life forever. it's not what you have
in your life but who you have in your life that matters. two people can look at the same,
exact thing and see something completely different. you cannot make someone love you,
all you can do is be someone who can be loved. the rest is up to them. there are many
ways of falling and staying in love. no matter the consequences those who are honest,
with themselves get farther in life. no matter how many friends you have, if you are
their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at times you need them the most. even when
you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries to you, you will find the strength
to help. writing as well as talking can ease emotional pains. the people you care the
most about in life are taken from you too soon.its hard to determine where to draw the
line between being nice and not hurting others feelings and standing up for what you believe
*brian wilder,
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