If you're not going to write your own vows, why even have them? It's really pathetic that some people can't pour their heart out for their love without using someone else's words. If you love someone and want them to know how much they mean to you, tell them from the bottom of your heart with every detail. Not words that you found or someone else wrote for you that just happens to be close/almost exact. *Only you 2 know how you feel about each other, speak your own mind, pour your heart out.