marie1616 · 1 decade ago
Extremely bitchy? I'd like to take a second and ask you have you lived my life? No, you haven't, have you gone through your own struggles? Probably, I don't know, because I DON'T KNOW YOU! I don't go around telling people who they should or shouldn't respect, you want to respect someone who physically harms you, who emotionally damages you or sexually assaults you, go right on ahead. I'm not going to tell you not too. You know someone who still respects someone who did those things? Once again good for you. I WILL NOT be told to respect someone who has done disgusting things to me and my family. If someone was to tell me that they hate their mom or dad because they wouldn't let them go to a party or wear those new tight jeans then I'd say they were being idiotic. But I don't give a who tries to tell me what I should or shouldn't feel, when I have been disrespected. Do you even know what respect means? It means a deep admiration for someone or something, not tell me why I would have any RESPECT for someone who physically, sexually, mentally and emotionally hurt me or anyone else for that matter? You don't. You give respect when it is earned. Simple as that. You can make you comments, you can talk your talk, but at the end of the day, my mother isn't around, I'm a better person because I had a father who loved me and showed me that I could move on from all those things in our past. I will and can vent my feelings anytime I want, as can you. But once again, pushing a baby out of your doesn't make you a mother, jizzing inside a girl don't make you father. I've grown up knowing not to judge others home lives or what they've been through, I can't know how they felt, and you sure as hell don't know how I felt. My comment below was not even the tip of the iceberg of all my "mother" did and personally it's no ones business, this quote was wrote to express my feelings about something I've been sick of seeing, don't like it? Don't read it, don't fave it and don't comment it. Because personally your opinion means nothing to me. I know what I've been through, I know the damage it had. NOT YOU. So don't even try and tell me how I should or shouldn't act. You got your opinion on my life when you never lived it, so I don't really care. If you had said something like " You should still respect her" then I wouldn't have even said anything back, but to make it out like my "mother" was just "bitchy" is assuming you know what the I've been through which you don't so think before you try and open your mouth.
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TurtleRawr · 1 decade ago
Its not right. From your comment, my mothers dad did all that. And cheated multiple times. She was always told she was a mistake. And thats not even a a tenth of it. They absolutely despised her. And controlled her. (both her parents) Her mom was no better.
And after all that? She didnt disrespect them ONCE. not. once.
Never yelled at them, never cussed at them. Never disobeyed their rules. Yeah? They kicked her out. And when she got with my dad and went to college, they tried making her come home. To control her more. MY DAD disrespected them. She still didnt do it.
Can you believe that? Someone actually respected people like that?
Well, its sad. My grandma got cancer, and my mom was the only person there to help her. Her husband didnt care, her other children didnt care. So when she saw my mom to help she said "of everyone, i never thought youd be here to help" because why? she did EVERYTHING she could to ruin my mothers life. But through everything she still loved, respected, and obeyed her.

My dads family was worse, though.
Starved, beaten, kicked out, locked up, forgotten at places, drugs, drinking, stealing.
Peer pressure got him into that. (drugs, drinking, stealing) my dads sister actually molested him. Guess what?
Still. Respected.

And you say you dont need to respect your mother? Just because she can be extremely biitchy? Thats not right.
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chelsadels · 1 decade ago
this made my day. thank you. finally somebody understands.
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kaseybug · 1 decade ago
@livingmylife how can u say u don't care how a parent treats someone so ur saying that they can abuse their child and that kid should still show respect? That's a flippin joke. You seem like someone who obviously doesn't know what its like being abuse or tormented which is a good thing, but who are you o judge others? I was abused for 10 yrs by my dad. I hate him and have no respect for him, I'm obviously horrible right? Think before you open your mouth, what marie has been through is terrible and we didn't walk in her shoes so don't tell people how they should respect ppl. Couldn't agree more with marie when she says if you give respect you'll get it. Stay strong girl xoxo
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marie1616 · 1 decade ago
@ firefliie, thank you :) I completely agree, if someone says they hate their mother because she won't let her wear a short skirt or something than yes that's wrong and a little immature. People don't think outside of their box to open up to what others may go through, glad to see that there are people who can :)
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fool's gold* · 1 decade ago
I agree with @firefliie xx <3
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firefliie · 1 decade ago
people have different reasons as to why they don't like their parent/s. fair enough, if it's a petty reason (eg. 'my mum won't let me go to a party i hate her') then it can be considered disrespectful, but if your mother was never a mother, you have the right to say what you like. don't worry about these other people + stay strong. <3
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marie1616 · 1 decade ago
@BrAnDy13, I love how you say I have no respect, when you don't know me. I give respect to people who give it to me, otherwise I don't care. You don't like me? Watch while I cry a river. -_-
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marie1616 · 1 decade ago
Actually my mother isn't even around, all my bills were paid by my father. & Your opinion is your own, I don't really care, but come at me trying to tell me that I'm disrespectful, you have no idea what I've been through as a child or what I had to go through & frankly I don't care either way. Do you know what's it like have to stand up in the doorway and get strayed with a spray bottle just because something broke in the house & your "mother" decided she wanted to be a , or do you know what it's like to watch your mother literally strangle your dad & have to call the police? No you don't, do you know what it's like to sit there with your father while he cries his eyes out because your mom cheated on him and got pregnant? Do you know what it's like to do everyones laundry and then have your "mother" go on a ramp page and throw them all out the window? No you don't and trust me sweetie thats not even the half of it. My "mother" never worked & she never paid the bills, my father did & to him I will always be grateful and love him to no end but don't you dare try and come at me about respect. When you give respect you'll freaking get it. Simple as that. Have a good day now.
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BrAnDy13 · 1 decade ago
LivingMyLife: That was amazing:) That girl has no respect. Get some why dont cha...
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Melrose* · 1 decade ago
i honestly think its disrespectful to talk horribly about either of your parents.
i dont care how they treat you. they brought you into thgis damn world. and they provide with a home. and youre on the internet. so obviously with electricity and internet connection. so i assume a television too. and i doubt youre sitting around naked right now. and i bet you ate today. have some respect?
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