love_hits_hard · 1 decade ago
ok well first of all i kinda know wat its like. this guy i liked at the time said i was hot and asked me if ii would go out with him if his gf broke up with him. the next day his gf broke up with him but i realized that i dnt wanna go out with someone who just goes out with anyone and he even told me he calls girls hot all the time an his gf doesnt care so i wouldnt want him doin that 2 me so i turned him down. well actually i was like 1. i dnt wanna be ur "back-up" and 2. i like this other guy. i rly do like another guy but i liked him too. if this guy is callin other girls hot n lookin down their shirts then obviously hes a player n u dnt wanna go out with a guy like that cuz hell break ur heart an u know its not gonna last 4ever. so break up with him b4 he breaks up with u. btw like a few days after i turned the guy down i was txtin him and he told me he had a gf.
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emily51 · 1 decade ago
if he's hurting you, its not worth it, i should know. i have the same questions as jennyrox1212.. and nosy, nosy me looked at the comment you left her.. sorry about that..
so it sounds like your not one of those couples who say "i love you" the first day you start to date. but if you've been together this long and you've been hearing this stuff for that long.. i think its time to try to let him go.. if he really loves you, he'll come back.. i know how hard that is.. i'm still working on the guy i dated last year for 6 months and its now officially 6 months & 4 days that he broke up with me.
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cantgetenoughx · 1 decade ago
idk .. my boyfriend doesn't live near me and alot of girls tell me that kind of stuff .. to make me dump him so they can date him . so idk . i wouldn't trust anyone else but what he says. be careful :)
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valm62896 · 1 decade ago
ok,
i had the same problem and ya know theres no excuses for guys doing this just let him go. i went through the same thing and i had to do it.
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ox_manon_xo · 1 decade ago
sorry but he sounds like trouble! if he's only causing you heartache then he's not worth it. find someone who really loves you and cares for you. you might not want to let him go but in the long run it'll be worth it, and youll realise its the best thing youve done.
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