I used to have high standards and
wouldn’t accept anything less—that can only get you so
far.
I’ve learned to accept someone for who they are, flaws and
all.
Some people find it difficult to label what my type of guy is, and
I don’t blame them, I can’t even do it.
To tell you the truth, I don’t have much of a
“type” based on what characteristics I look for in a
guy; what makes me like a guy and I’ve noticed is the
connection.
Sure, I can write a list of everything I want in a guy and when the
time comes, I may even meet him, but what if there’s no
connection?
What if I meet the “guy of my dreams” and there’s
no spark?
Nothing.
There’s an unlikely chance that there will even be a fire for
love to burn.
It makes sense to me to base it on connection, I wouldn’t
want to be in a relationship with someone because I’m in love
with who he is, I want to be in love with him.
When you make that connection with someone, it leaves you with room
to like them more everyday because you’re learning more about
them rather than just being attracted to someone because you think
they’re this, they’re that; and if they’re not
all what you anticipated them to be, you’re left
disappointed.
Anyone can feel an attraction TO someone, but to have a connection
WITH someone, that’s what I’d much rather opt for
simply said :
CONNECTION, NOT ATTRACTION
I used to have high standards and wouldn’t accept anything
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Jul 26, 2014 9:17am
