rooftops* · 1 decade ago
Don't do that. It's the worst thing you can do. it may seem like it helps and will make things better but in a year you'll be so far in that you can't stop. You'll regret it. You won't be able to show your body and that sucks. You could find someone you love and you'd have to hide every inch of yourself around them. You'll be secretive and it will destroy you & everything you love. Please.. don't do it. I'm here <3
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok...thanks
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karabearxo · 1 decade ago
Don't. If you feel like you need to talk to someone or need something, ask for help before you do that i swear it will help so much. I cut to escape and I was already depressed, but then my friends finding out and ratting me out and getting my family involved made it worse and that was a year ago, I'm still in therapy and still really depressed and just not good. Don't. It will ruin you, you don't need it.
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Lizzayy* · 1 decade ago
id become more worried than i am right now. cutting isnt worth it, it seems like the solution to all of your problems but it isnt. if somethings wrong you can always talk to me and ill never judge you. im sure there are plenty of girls on this site that would listen to you too. please dont pick up the blade and think everything will be better if you give yourself more pain
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yvette97 · 1 decade ago
Id beg you to stop and id tell you that I'm here for you whenever you need a friend. Ill listen and try and help you to the best of my ability. I wont judge you. Ill be here for you.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks...it means a lot
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*Emily the freak* · 1 decade ago
Ok don't you dear do it. It is the stupidest thing to do and you get ugly scars that you have to hide. You would most likely get physicaly addicted to it. And what if people find out you cut? Your gonna have to see some stupid therapist or even go to a mental hospital. Do you really want that?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Haha m parents would never send me there, they're a bit crazy themselves.
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poodlelomein35 · 1 decade ago
First off, 69th comment heehee. Ok sorry, believe me, I know cutting isn't a joke, I used to do it myself. I know the pain you feel, how it feels so horrible like it will never end. But I promise you it will. It sounds cliche but it always gets better. You ha e so much to live for. There are so many people who would be devastated to find out you hurt yourself. Please don't do it. My music got me thru it, and I am proud to say I have been cut free for almost a year and a half. Yeah, I'm still suicidal, but I'm taking things step by step. If you ever need somebody to talk to, I'm always here. Please remember you are so beautiful inside and out and you don't deserve to do that to yourself. I love you so much <3 stay strong gorgeous :)

It might be stormy now but it can't rain forever
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok...thanks. I always make the excuse that it's my family but its really not....i mean sorta. It's mainly me but my family makes me feel worse about myself
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poodlelomein35 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I know I kinda make that excuse too. But in reality, I'm my own biggest bully :/
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Same. I find everything wrong with myself, feel bad, then shut others out because of myself :/
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poodlelomein35 · 1 decade ago
Honey, you're reading me my life story
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Oh....well I guess I'm not the only one...I'm sorry you feel that way too
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
I don't rlly know how to put this without the beginning sounding weird... If you don't want to kill urself, you shouldn't cut. Because cutting is just another way of dying

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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I don't understand. I've cut before, I came out fine, I just wanna start again
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
but if you cut again, you might not be fine... do u want ur kids to see your scars and think its ok for them to do it?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok...my mom was bulimic. I never will be. I also don't cut deep so that scars won't form. I just need an escape
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
cutting is not an exuce for cutting
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok...I'm trying to stop. I really am. I just can't stand myself so much though...
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
why?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Idk...I'm just f/ck/d up....I always hurt people that I love unintentionally and I'm a terrible person no matter what others say...I just hate me
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
you just need to learn to love who you are and find things that you like..u shouldnt hate yourself for who r...
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I guess. I've been trying though for like 4 years...nothing has really helped
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pieloverhehe5225 · 1 decade ago
keep trying until usucceed
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok....I will. Thanks :)
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DramaForLife · 1 decade ago
I would want you to stop because it's a really addicting & awful thing to do so please don't start.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I know...I've done it before and I'm trying not to
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.joyriding.* · 1 decade ago
Every single time you want to pick up your implement, count every reason NOT to. The reasons could be a person who doesn't want to see you sad, it could be that it's difficult to hide, anything. Let me give you a few to start off, you can add your own too
1) I care. You destroy a little bit of me if you ever do
2) It's addictive
3) Think of someone's reaction to when they find the scars. A friend, your parent, anyone.
4) No problem is permanent. You will and you CAN get past this.
It doesn't matter if you have just these four, or fifty, one reason not to self harm is enough.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Wow...that's probably helped me the most...thanks
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kiaraashford · 1 decade ago
please dont start cutting
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I'm trying....thanks though
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kiaraashford · 1 decade ago
i hope u dontcutcause onceustart then u wont be able to stop! if u need to vent then im here! just dont hurt yourself!
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I've cut before....I've been able to stop. I also don't cut deep so as not to get scars....I just need an escape for it all since my parents don't let me do anything to release the stress and energy
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catastr0phe · 1 decade ago
You'll end up probably dead or worst like me... Good luck. Do what ya want but just know if i could go back to the day I cut I'd make it completely different bc... It doesn't help at all
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conklineli5280 · 1 decade ago
Please don't do it. I used to cut myself. i thought no one cared. i thought i was worthless. But people do care. My mom found out, and so did all my friends. i felt horrible about them finding out. Cutting for the first time was the worst decision of my life. please, im begging you don't do it. I'm here if you ever need to talk. I promise i will always care about you. Please please dont do it. Even if you think no one cares, look at all the comments on here that care, look at me, I care. Don't make the same mistake i made. It will ruin you.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I'm trying but no one can help me. I though on it and its not just my family...that's an excuse I'm telling myself. It's mainly me. I hate myself and I can't fix that at all
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conklineli5280 · 1 decade ago
I know its hard. But are you up for a challenge?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Always...they're my favorite
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conklineli5280 · 1 decade ago
Everytime you see a mirror stop. look into it and point out one thing you love about yourself. you have to name something different everytime and you always have to say something. My therapist told me to do this and it helped me so much. I think it will help you too.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
That's going to be so hard....but I'll try...should I post my progress for you?
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conklineli5280 · 1 decade ago
Please do. I really hope it helps.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks so much :). And it's the other way around too...if you need to talk I'm here
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underestimated · 1 decade ago
I would cry for you.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Don't...that's what I hate the most. Being pitied. It makes me feel even worse
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underestimated · 1 decade ago
don't feel worse about it. you always need someone to cry for you not matter what! it shows that we love you
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JamesWittty · 1 decade ago
bullied verbally at home? i have it all the time, i strated cutting because of it, but please don't do it, don't you dare, it's pretty hard to stop, it feels like you're trapped.. My parents are saying some pretty hard things to me, but i'm trying to stop now, just don't please! i'm very serious..
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I'm trying...it just hurt so much though. I'm trying not to but I can't talk to them about it because either they'll think I'm weak or ignore me. It sucks
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JamesWittty · 1 decade ago
ikr
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Yah..I know since I'm in the same spot I probably can't help much but I'm here if you wanna talk about it
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JamesWittty · 1 decade ago
ty, same here
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
No problem and thanks...so how has your Sunday been?
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JamesWittty · 1 decade ago
pretty boring
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Oh I'm still in bed...I go to church later on though in like an hour and a half...
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clearlytruthful · 1 decade ago
Just reading this now I started crying if you do I'm not going to hang out with you anymore. You have great friend, a sweet bf, and way more than u realize
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I know but I'm bullied constantly at home verbally and you have no idea how much it hurts...you've never had that
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clearlytruthful · 1 decade ago
Do u want to bet?
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Yeah. Tell me what you go through? Do you have your post haunt you every night? Do you have family members being the cause of that? Do they constantly out you down and all you a weak stupid baby if you cry? Do they deem you unfit for life? Do they curse you out and get mad when you ask them to stop? D they act like you do everything wrong and like your sibling does everything right? No one knows how much it hurts
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clearlytruthful · 1 decade ago
Every one who has a sibling goes through some of that. And fighting with you parents is natural they just want to make u the best u can b. but having your friends cause the pain iris so much worse
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Wow...be that way. I didn't even say that....I don't now. But if you're gonna leave me for hurting, I'll remember
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Please don't cut. This may seem too cliché, but everything gets better. Like I always say, you have to go through the storm before you see the gorgeous rainbows and sunshine. Harming yourself won't solve anything. It just leads to more problems because you can easily get addicted and then you'll become even more stressed trying to stop. It may not seem like your councilor doesn't get it but she was hired to understand everything. Even if she's never experienced it, you could explain what it's like to her. And if you really feel like she doesn't understand you could talk to another teacher or go visit a therapist. People will listen and help you get through it. I'm here when you need to talk and my family is extremely difficult to, trust me, so I understand a lot of family problems. Stay strong and please don't hurt yourself, it's not worth it.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks..I'm trying...it's hard though. They just never stop and I'm way past breaking point..soon il shatter
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Well try talking to someone. Really, it will help. And if you don't like talking about your problems to others, do something to show your family they can't bring you down. Try out for a play or sports team and work your butt off so you'll do amazing and when they see you they will be forced to admit you did great. You're strong enough to get through it, you've made it this far, you'll make it all the way
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
They won't. No matter what they hate on me to release their anger...I'm the disposal
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Well then you need to talk to them, tell them how it makes you feel. Or talk to someone else, an adult.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I don't wanna though...I just want it to end
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Please don't end it. It will end itself once you go off to college in a few years and get a job and apartment. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. They would miss you sooo much, even if it doesn't seem it. You can make it through it.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I didn't mean suicide...I'd never go there. Yu have no idea what evil would happen for me to do that. I meant I want the hurting to end...
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Good, that's just the way it sounded. The hurting will end. It may take a while and might not happen until you're out of the house but it will end.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Yeah...just gotta wait 4-5 more years -_-
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1mrsseguin9 · 1 decade ago
Hang in there, you'll be okay. I'm here if you need to talk.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok..thanks. It means a lot
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iMakeSence · 1 decade ago
im warning you,i cutt and each minute i dont cutt i feel like im dieing.its extremely hard to stop,that first cut u get,will just leadto itleast 20 more.im not going to give u a speech about cutting im just going to say,if you start cutting you lose a part of you.it makes you depressed but,,it does help for me,if i had a choice,i would rather start all over again and not cut. :/
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I've cut before...it's just too much for me..no one would understand. No one ever does. They all think I can take anything...they're so wrong
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justanothergirl529 · 1 decade ago
Once you cut it's hard not to never again. Cutting is like an addiction, your body will want it just like drugs. I cut and i try not to, and this may seem hypocritical, but life and family and everything will get better. Just keep your head up, and try not to stay alone a lot. I just got to the point where i trust myself with scissors again. Just let thoughs haters hate and keep a smile on your face, trust me it will kill those who want to put you down:) (and i see it's your family, talk to them about it)
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Yeah. The thing is if I talk to them about it either they'll make fun of me not being able to handle it or they'll ignore me
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justanothergirl529 · 1 decade ago
Well talk to a counselor. I don't know how you are with telling people about your problems, but it's better to talk than cut. Just think, scars never go away. Think some years from now and your son/daughter sees your arms and asks "mommy what happened to you?"
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I know. I've cut before and the scars are basically gone. And my counselor won't get it, she gets everything but putting down and it's effects
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two* · 1 decade ago
Please do not start cutting!!!! I have for a long time, but I've stopped since December. You can get through whatever it is that you want to cut for, I promise. If you need someone, come talk to me, I am always here for you, but don't hurt yourself darling, please. <3
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
I'll try...but it's my family that's the problem and no one can help me here. No one knows what I go through. No one knows how much they really hurt me when they out me down constantly
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two* · 1 decade ago
My family hasn't been to good either lately, so I might be able to relate to you with some things. Just hang in there, I'm always here for you and to support you, so you are never ever alone I promise <3
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks...it means a lot. My family are the people that out everyone down and if you cry you're a weak idiot that can't handle life in their eyes
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two* · 1 decade ago
I totally get what you mean, I have family and freinds like that, but if they treat you badly they aren't worth your tears. Just keep your head high, you will get through it, I swear
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok..thanks
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peacegirl270 · 1 decade ago
please dont hurt yourself. you shuld stoop down to that level. you have a beating heart and that was given to you for a reason. that reason was not to hurt yourself. that reason is for you to live a wonderful life. let that heart continue it's mission. 'tough times don't last, people do.'
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Thanks..but that motto isn't really true. Tough times last when it's at home. Most people think I have a great family...they really spend their time putting me down and I just hide it all behind a smile and a laugh....
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peacegirl270 · 1 decade ago
aww. i'm sorry. i can understand what it is like to have a tough homelife. trust me. but i dont think that you should start hurting yourself. thats not a solution to this. that would just be adding to the problem. i bet in a few years you'll be going off to college and maybe you can just move somewhere far far away. im sorry if it keeps happen but please stay strong. im here to talk if you need it.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Ok..thanks..they're just so mean. No one really sees what's happening except for me. I'm known as the person who'll never break. They just don't know I've been broken
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peacegirl270 · 1 decade ago
im sorry. just try to stay strong and hold out. i know you can do it.
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doublesidedice · 1 decade ago
Kk. Thanks
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