boys- DON'T use corny sayings b/c in the end the girls just laugh at them, not love you for them. DON'T say i love you before you've been going out for a LONG while. NOT right as you began going out even if you both don't mean it...it won't mean anything when you do. DON'T do everything in texting or iming. Tell her on the phone or in person. even if you are scared it will mean more to the girl.

girls- STOP looking for the perfect guy! there is no such thing! enjoy your life! DON'T be miss desperaldo looking for that guy to hold your heart, you've got a lifetime to do that. BUT take chances while you can because you may never get the chance. AND when you do have what you want, hold onto it tight and appreciate it because you might lose it. BUT appreciate what you have right now don't be lost looking for that thing you might never get while you miss the one thing you have right now.