I NEED HELP, pleaase . ):
i know it's long. but worth the read.

my bf - bob
his friend- jimmy
girl he liked - heather
(nott real nammes. just madee them up)

okay, so.. heres the story. i have been going out withh this kid for 7 months. in june. i broke up with him because a lot was going on in my family. and school was ending and i needed just a few days untill school ended to get everything out of the way and i didn't really need a boyfriend at the time. i told him i'd still love him and talk to him everyday and tell him i love him and everything but he over reaacted about it and started liking his ex girlfriend, heather. i got back together with bob and we were fine. happy and everything and his friend jimmy is heathers cousin. he went down the cape with jimmy for the weekend and stayed the night. and heather was there with him too. we were texting and he was acting really different so i keept asking him if he was okay. and he keept telling me he was fine. later that night he texted me telling me he hadda talk to me. he told me that he liked me and heather the same so he was breaking up with me for heather and said that hopefully going out with her will show him that he loves me. but it made NO sense to me at all. he knows he loves me. so him and heather talked that night. and heather told him to stay with me. so he can back to me and we were fine for about a montth. & i had my friend sleepover one night we went to the movies with some guys but they were all just friends. one of them tried holding my hand but i let go and said i had a bf and he stoppped. and i had to tell bob. i don't keep anything from him and he got really ma and thought i really did hold his hand. even though when he was going out with me. he held heathers hand. and waited to tell me. my friend called bob and told him i liked the kid who held my hand. and he got mad even though i didnt like him. she HATES bob so she said i was breaking up with him even though i wasnt then i talked to bob about it and bob dindt believe me and broke up with me. then we got into a raelly big fight we broke up for three weeks and every night i cried and was not myself. and he was trying to go out with heather but heather didnt want to and she wanted to wait for school to startt. and then she wannted to just be friends so he was done waiting and he asked me back out and now we're fine. but. he tells me who to be friends with and talk to but i understand a few people. but he made me stop talking to my best friend. even though i secerltyy talk to her and hangout with her. even though i know its bad i dont wanna loose him. or her. and im telling him soon about it. but i told him to stpo talking to heahter because she tstill likes him and shes coming between us still. but he wont stop being her friend. and he wants to hangout with her this week and i told him im coming but he won't let me. a lot of my friends really dont like him and want him and me to breakup but i dont wanna loose him. at all. and its so hard to let go. but idk if it would be better for me to. or not. im happy with him but sad without him but we also get into a lot of fights and i dont want him coming between my friends.

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I NEED HELP, pleaase . ): i know it's long. but worth the

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justinbieberl0v3 · 1 decade ago
haahah thaanks guyys. yeep thats what i say. but we've talked about it before. this is both our last time. we're both done getting hurt. so if anyone of us messes up. it's completely done. i know i couldf find better and do better. but i love him and want hiim, as of noww. but who knowss. maybe theres another guy out there and i just gotta deaal that. he wont be mine and i'll be much happier
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zachysgrls911 · 1 decade ago
because on your own you must realize, those are memories, not the real thing anymore..its not who we used to be..but dont go around dating other people sayin im over him, wen u really arent..if ur thinkin of him or crying...dont date...i made that mistake, wait for him to be completely free of your mind:)
hoped i helped!
write back:)
sincerely,
carissa <3
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zachysgrls911 · 1 decade ago
honestly hun, i would just be like listen. we really need to come to an agreement, one that we can both settle with. no fighting, no yelling. no getting mad. it must be IN PERSON. so you both can see each others emotions, facial expressions, body language etc, etc. because fighting all the time is not a good thing, yes you two might have been together for like nine months, but this just cant work out..if you two cannot come to a fair agreement, or ignore your friends. even though it hurts u gotta split, dont lie to urself sayin im over him, let it take time..it took me a year once to get over a guy, it might be painful and endless like ur NEVER gonna get over him, but deal with the memories and cry..and when YOU ARE TRUELY ready, without telling yourself your over him, the pain will be gone...you will be over him, moved on...but thats my advice.
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beliebinchances · 1 decade ago
If hes telling you who you cant and can talk to he's not worth it. Even though you guys have been thru a lot, i think its time to let go. Its not like you told him he couldnt talk to heather right? I know its going to be heard but 'Chicks before dicks' hope i helped(:
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