livelovelearn12
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1 decade ago
ok... well for situation #1... i think that, even though it hurts, you need to see where they're going to go, and just let it happen. think about it, they're most likely not going to get married. i think you should try and support her the best you can. is he really worth it? he's one guy, i know he might seem like your whole world, but if you really think hard about it, would you rather lose lily as a friend or fred? i'm usually the guys are whatever, girls are forever kind of person.
ok... for the 2nd... it's funny, you used my name:) anywho.. it sound like this guy,i'm gonna call him Jimmy cuase you didnt give him a name, it jimmy that worth it? i mean if he's dancing with girls like that, how do you think he would treat emma? guys who don't respect girls arn't likely to change. i know she might think she can change him, or maybe she hasn't given thought to how he would treat her. but if he goes for girls like that... is he worth it? if all he cares about is apperance, i'd say he's not. i want a guy who likes me for my personality.
number 3... ok, well this depends on how well you know suzie. if you're pretty close with her, you might want to just sit down and try and talk with her about stuff. try and figure out what's wrong. but if you've tried that and its not working, if you think she's seriously hurting herself, i think you might wnat to tell a counselor of something. cause you obviously don't want her to get hurt. if you don't know her as well, maybe you should invite her to hang out with you and your friends. maybe she's lonely, maybe she's having family problems. just try to be there to support her, but reinforce that cutting is not an answer. you don't have to flat out tell her, but try and let her know thats how you feel. it's not solving problems. it may make over shadow the pain in life for a moment or two, but when that feelings gone, you still haven't solved your problems. theyre still gonna be there. oh, and make sure she knows that youre totally not agaisnt her being bi. if you don't make a big deal out of it, she might feel better.
ok and #4, for tracy i would just be there for her. you don't have to pressure her to tell you, but try and let her know that you're there for her. also, just like #3, try to point out that it isn't solving her problems. if you guys are talking about it, you both may be a little uncomfortable, but just try that best you can.
i know it's all hard, but think of all the good things in life. this stuff will eventually pass, and youll move on. i hope i helped, let me know how things go, i'm here if you need more advice. i don't know if my adivce will help, i hope it does. i don't swear by it or anything, its just what i would do in those situations. i know the stuff can seem hard, and it is hard, but if you don't do anything, don't expect things to get any better. good luck:) reply
livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
thx for the lollipop it was yummy :D
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
i just hope i helped..
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
ok... well for situation #1... i think that, even though it hurts, you need to see where they're going to go, and just let it happen. think about it, they're most likely not going to get married. i think you should try and support her the best you can. is he really worth it? he's one guy, i know he might seem like your whole world, but if you really think hard about it, would you rather lose lily as a friend or fred? i'm usually the guys are whatever, girls are forever kind of person.
ok... for the 2nd... it's funny, you used my name:) anywho.. it sound like this guy,i'm gonna call him Jimmy cuase you didnt give him a name, it jimmy that worth it? i mean if he's dancing with girls like that, how do you think he would treat emma? guys who don't respect girls arn't likely to change. i know she might think she can change him, or maybe she hasn't given thought to how he would treat her. but if he goes for girls like that... is he worth it? if all he cares about is apperance, i'd say he's not. i want a guy who likes me for my personality.
number 3... ok, well this depends on how well you know suzie. if you're pretty close with her, you might want to just sit down and try and talk with her about stuff. try and figure out what's wrong. but if you've tried that and its not working, if you think she's seriously hurting herself, i think you might wnat to tell a counselor of something. cause you obviously don't want her to get hurt. if you don't know her as well, maybe you should invite her to hang out with you and your friends. maybe she's lonely, maybe she's having family problems. just try to be there to support her, but reinforce that cutting is not an answer. you don't have to flat out tell her, but try and let her know thats how you feel. it's not solving problems. it may make over shadow the pain in life for a moment or two, but when that feelings gone, you still haven't solved your problems. theyre still gonna be there. oh, and make sure she knows that youre totally not agaisnt her being bi. if you don't make a big deal out of it, she might feel better.
ok and #4, for tracy i would just be there for her. you don't have to pressure her to tell you, but try and let her know that you're there for her. also, just like #3, try to point out that it isn't solving her problems. if you guys are talking about it, you both may be a little uncomfortable, but just try that best you can.
i know it's all hard, but think of all the good things in life. this stuff will eventually pass, and youll move on. i hope i helped, let me know how things go, i'm here if you need more advice. i don't know if my adivce will help, i hope it does. i don't swear by it or anything, its just what i would do in those situations. i know the stuff can seem hard, and it is hard, but if you don't do anything, don't expect things to get any better. good luck:)
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
no prob! i totally love your quotes. they're very... me. and i love the colors:)
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
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livelovelearn12 · 1 decade ago
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