and in our society:
she cuts? she's attention seeking.
she starves herself? give her a cheeseburger.
she never smiles? i'm sure she's fine.
she can't look anyone in the eyes? she's just awkward.
her voice shakes when she says she's fine? she's obviously fine.
she's shoved into lockers and bullied daily? that's just how kids are.
she doesn't talk to anyone? she's shy.
she cries all the time? attention seeking again.
she kills herself? ..we just didn't see the signs.