mikaylaxx_
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1 decade ago
my boyfriend does all of this! except for the banner on his cell phone. his wallpaper is a picture of us. so is mine(: <3 reply
Fox_rider8
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1 decade ago
my best friend.. or now i should say ex best friend did this to me all the time.. she would betray my trust and not even care.. so i just didnt say anything about it cuz i didnt wanna lose her.. but she wasnt a good friend at all.. and it doesnt sound like this person is a good friend either.. so just stay strong and dont give in reply
xsanaa26x
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1 decade ago
My bestfriend does this to me. Don't give in, show you're strong. reply
ROARROARROARROAR
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1 decade ago
heyy, what do you need advice on? im hear to listen :] reply
xsuzyx97
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1 decade ago
i understandd. i think that first you should ask her if she would be upset if u guys went out. if she says yes talk to her about it and say its ove in the nicest way possible then let her know that u guys like eachother then let her get used to it and slowly walk her into the fact that youre dating. if shes your friend sh will be happy for you!<3 reply
xxBestDressFearlessxx
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1 decade ago
you have to tell her that it happened so fast that you didn't even know what to do. tell her that you can work it out, and that you canalways compromise. if she's really your friend, shell do her best to understand your situation. but if she's not comfortable with it, it's possible that you have to prioritze. who do you care about more, your friendship, or your boyfriend ?
hope i helped :)
good luck reply
its_a_simple_plan_x3
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1 decade ago
youre an individual. (: like Alilovesyou said, typical teenage girl. reply
Alilovesyou
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1 decade ago
a typical teenage girl reply
chealseexpeace
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1 decade ago
im using that. here check it out xanga.com/chealseexpeace reply
TheHippieNinja
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1 decade ago
Don't worry. My boyfriend forgot our sixth month anniversary. And almost our One Year. lol, but that's what boys do. They can't ever remember the right dates. :P reply
TasteTheRainbow796
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1 decade ago
whatever u do, dont start cutting again. there are better ways to deal with the pain. go to someone u love and trust...and just talk. reply
love_the_1s_around_u
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1 decade ago
h ewill brake up with u. nut ur life will go on trust me i went thru the same thing my bf broke up with me for cuttin gthen dating my 2nd cousin. ur in 8th grade get over it. u got a whole life time ahead of u! suck it up be a man and rub some dirt on it. comment me if ur having trouble im here to help :]
reply
marja_joy
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1 decade ago
well, the same thing actually happened to me in december.. im in eigth grade, and my boyfriend was in seventh. we had been dating for three months, when i told him, he was there for me, so i hope it works out for you too. <3
tell him if you need too. reply
got_shortness
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1 decade ago
sweetie why would you cut yourself? you should tell him because that was a part of your life and your growing from it and if he cant except it then hes not worth it nor the one for you. I think if he breaks up with you it should give you confidence because thats lifes way of saying there is someone else better out there for you!
I hope I helped take care hun. reply
josiewdog123
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1 decade ago
story of my life reply
chealseexpeace
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1 decade ago
what you need to do is this:
tell your mom/dad. ik u dnt want to but there the ones that are going to help you.
find out what you feel when you need to cut and when you ARE cutting.
keep track of the feeling, when you do feel it, tell your mom. or best friend. when you want to cut, take all razors, sharp object and throw them away. trust me it will work. you can;t keep them around you, ull have the urge.
Then when you are going to go crazy if you don't cut, tell your best friend. MArk what you feel, when you feel it. DON"T CUT. if you get pass this first time, the biggest urge to cut, then it will be easier to get over the urge.
it will take a while to make ur self. u have to have self controll. it will be hard bt my sis cut her self for 6 years and this is the way, exact way they helped her. it works. but u have to have someone to do it with you. u probably wont want to tell anyone, but u need to. jst think if u cn annouce it to the public then u can tell a friend. tell me how u do, and if u need anything else. reply
ilovedutchboyss99
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1 decade ago
ask your self, why am i cutting ?
then find a reason to take care of tyhe problem of why .
best of lucck :) reply
mikaylaxx_ · 1 decade ago
my boyfriend does all of this! except for the banner on his cell phone. his wallpaper is a picture of us. so is mine(: <3
reply
Fox_rider8 · 1 decade ago
my best friend.. or now i should say ex best friend did this to me all the time.. she would betray my trust and not even care.. so i just didnt say anything about it cuz i didnt wanna lose her.. but she wasnt a good friend at all.. and it doesnt sound like this person is a good friend either.. so just stay strong and dont give in
reply
xsanaa26x · 1 decade ago
My bestfriend does this to me. Don't give in, show you're strong.
reply
animalove01 · 1 decade ago
A girl
reply
ROARROARROARROAR · 1 decade ago
heyy, what do you need advice on? im hear to listen :]
reply
xsuzyx97 · 1 decade ago
i understandd. i think that first you should ask her if she would be upset if u guys went out. if she says yes talk to her about it and say its ove in the nicest way possible then let her know that u guys like eachother then let her get used to it and slowly walk her into the fact that youre dating. if shes your friend sh will be happy for you!<3
reply
mint · 1 decade ago
yeah.. what she said..
reply
xxBestDressFearlessxx · 1 decade ago
you have to tell her that it happened so fast that you didn't even know what to do. tell her that you can work it out, and that you canalways compromise. if she's really your friend, shell do her best to understand your situation. but if she's not comfortable with it, it's possible that you have to prioritze. who do you care about more, your friendship, or your boyfriend ?
hope i helped :)
good luck
reply
its_a_simple_plan_x3 · 1 decade ago
youre an individual. (: like Alilovesyou said, typical teenage girl.
reply
Alilovesyou · 1 decade ago
a typical teenage girl
reply
w0ahxoemilayy · 1 decade ago
the stereotypes.
reply
chealseexpeace · 1 decade ago
im using that. here check it out xanga.com/chealseexpeace
reply
TheHippieNinja · 1 decade ago
Don't worry. My boyfriend forgot our sixth month anniversary. And almost our One Year. lol, but that's what boys do. They can't ever remember the right dates. :P
reply
TasteTheRainbow796 · 1 decade ago
whatever u do, dont start cutting again. there are better ways to deal with the pain. go to someone u love and trust...and just talk.
reply
love_the_1s_around_u · 1 decade ago
h ewill brake up with u. nut ur life will go on trust me i went thru the same thing my bf broke up with me for cuttin gthen dating my 2nd cousin. ur in 8th grade get over it. u got a whole life time ahead of u! suck it up be a man and rub some dirt on it. comment me if ur having trouble im here to help :]
reply
marja_joy · 1 decade ago
well, the same thing actually happened to me in december.. im in eigth grade, and my boyfriend was in seventh. we had been dating for three months, when i told him, he was there for me, so i hope it works out for you too. <3
tell him if you need too.
reply
got_shortness · 1 decade ago
sweetie why would you cut yourself? you should tell him because that was a part of your life and your growing from it and if he cant except it then hes not worth it nor the one for you. I think if he breaks up with you it should give you confidence because thats lifes way of saying there is someone else better out there for you!
I hope I helped take care hun.
reply
josiewdog123 · 1 decade ago
story of my life
reply
chealseexpeace · 1 decade ago
what you need to do is this:
tell your mom/dad. ik u dnt want to but there the ones that are going to help you.
find out what you feel when you need to cut and when you ARE cutting.
keep track of the feeling, when you do feel it, tell your mom. or best friend. when you want to cut, take all razors, sharp object and throw them away. trust me it will work. you can;t keep them around you, ull have the urge.
Then when you are going to go crazy if you don't cut, tell your best friend. MArk what you feel, when you feel it. DON"T CUT. if you get pass this first time, the biggest urge to cut, then it will be easier to get over the urge.
it will take a while to make ur self. u have to have self controll. it will be hard bt my sis cut her self for 6 years and this is the way, exact way they helped her. it works. but u have to have someone to do it with you. u probably wont want to tell anyone, but u need to. jst think if u cn annouce it to the public then u can tell a friend. tell me how u do, and if u need anything else.
reply
ilovedutchboyss99 · 1 decade ago
ask your self, why am i cutting ?
then find a reason to take care of tyhe problem of why .
best of lucck :)
reply