MY past experience
You meet a lad, randomly start talking one day, he compliments you on everything he can: "you're gorgeous", "you're cute" etc.. he asks about your past relationships, you tell him you've been hurt before he says " i would never hurt you", you tell him some funny life stories, he tells you his. he starts flirting with you and you start to think hes a really nice lad, you then flirt back. he asks for your number, you give to him straight away. now, every morning he says good morning and tells you to have a good day. quickly; speaking to him becomes your daily routine, you count on him speaking to you, and whenever he does you smile instantly. he asks about your day and you speak all night. the night conversations are always the best. he always asks you if you're tired or you want to go to sleep but you say no and stay just to talk to him. now he wants to meet you, so you meet him and now that you have you like him even more, you now get butterflies every single time he speaks to you/meet him. you now tell your friends how much you like him, they tell him you like him because you feel it would ruin everything if you do it, he then tells you he likes you too. you're over the moon, you're so excited, you feel like the happiest girl in the world but then one day, he randomly stops talking to you, stops putting the effort in and you have no idea why, you know somethings changed but you're confused. he stops putting the effort in and you become all clingy and feel like a pest every time you pick up the strength to say "hi" to him, you come to a conclusion that its all your fault and he's mad at you for whatever you have done so you ask him "what have i done", "why don't you speak to me no more" have i done something wrong?" he replies with "sorry baby, ive been busy" so, you let it go, but for days after maybe weeks and hes still busy constantly. every time you talk to him it becomes an argument, over the most stupidest of things.. you then stop putting the effort in thinking it works both ways, but it doesn't you then stop speaking, months go by and you still haven't spoken. you see he's married to some other girl on facebook, he calls her "gorgeous" and "baby" exactly what he used to call you. he's fine without you. he has already moved on and you're still mad, crying and upset. you still hope that one day he will pop up and everything will go back to how it was, back to normal but you know that will never happen, you now compare every other guy to him. he forgot about you a long time ago, and you still don't want to believe you got played, you're having a hard time letting go but you have to. now every girl/boy reading this, is thinking about that one person. right?