"Bottom line is, even if you see them coming, you're not ready for
the big moments. No one asks for their life to change. Not really.
But it does. So what are we? Helpless? Puppets? No. The big moments
are gonna come. You can't help that. It's what you do afterwards
that counts. That's when you find out who you are.... You'll see
what I mean."
-BTVS