The most dangerous time for an abused women is when she
leaves. The abuser will try to make her sound to be the problem. He
will try to turn people against her. He will make sure that he has
a reason she has to communicate with him. He will try to manipulate
get and everyone aroumd her that she knows and loves. When he
realizes that the " I LOVE YOUS" and the " I AM SORRYS" aren't
working it turns to violence. Then he's sorry again and loves you.
The hardest part knowing this will happen and knowing YOU HAVE TO
GO.... YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHOICE. Some people don't understand that.
Knowing you WILL go through this without who was your best amd
maybe only friend is a lot of the reason women don't leave. We are
victimized by them everyday (in ways we never knew were possible)
by both them amd the community. In a way.... It would have been
earlier to stay. You know how you are going to be victimized. You
can see it coming. When you leave and after you leave.... There is
no end to the harassment they inflict on people. Please remember
this when you find out someone was victimized. Definitely keep an
open mind when you hear a story and put yourself in their shoes as
much as possible.