Witty Profiles
So
I have been
asked by
my best
friend a question.
And I want
other people’s opinions
on this.
She has been
madly in love
with this
guy for five
years. He
is one of
our best
friends,
and last
year they
told each
other they
had feelings
for each
other. They
never officially
dated, and
still aren’t, but
they are close. As
time goes
on, she feels
he has been
pulling
away, and
he isn’t
as communicative
as he used
to be with
her. Then
this other
guy came along
(who, quite
frankly is
the male
version of
her, a perfect
match) and
they have
become really
good friends
over the
last few
months. She
thinks
he is going
to ask her
out, and she
wants to know
if it is
time she gives
up on the
first guy,
who she is
in love with,
for a chance
with the
new guy,
who her feelings
aren’t as
strong for
(yet) but
the seem
like the
perfect match?
1 faves · 3 comments · Jan 16, 2016 12:38pm
Delicate*
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8 years ago
She should try it with the new guy! Love is a fickle thing, or rather, it is like the ocean. If it is real, it always comes back to the shore. A boat can't change the path of the tides, the waves. If the first guy really loves her, then it won't hurt her to try with someone new. And if he doesnt, well then, she's helping herself move on.
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JakeBowden
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8 years ago
In all honesty, from a guys perspective, if the first guy truly loved her, then he would let her go and let her move on so she could meet new people. Being in love implies that you just want the other to be happy. If it's pretty obvious he's hurting her, he should be a man and let her have the chance to be happy, even if it means her being with someone else.
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Raxin · 8 years ago
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Why can't she see both?