"And when people try to
minimize your pain,
they are doing you a disservice.
And when you try to minimize your own pain,
you're doing yourself a disservice.
The truth is it hurts because it's real.
It hurts because it mattered.
And that is an important thing to acknowledge
to yourself. But that doesn't mean
that it won't end, it won't get better.
Because it will."
-John Green