happiest* · 1 decade ago
I'm 16, and this year i was in love with a collage guy who was 20.He took care of me.But we were only friends.Then i started to stalk him and he actually liked grow up girls.He always saw me like his sister even if he liked me he would never ask me out.Now he left to another state and it's been 3 months and i think i'm over him.Dear whoever you are,you think you're in love but it's just an attraction.I hope you can notice that befor it's too late.Good luck gorgeous xx
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Øipy* · 1 decade ago
Uhm. Right. When I was twelve, (this is two years ago) I had this MASSIVE crush on a guy who looked like Alex Pettyfer. I thought he was really hot by the time. I mean, I ddn't even know what his name is and that nor I ever spoke to him! Idk, I guess I just fell for his appearance. Anyway, I never had a chance with him because he knew I was only twelve and guys these days are just hungry for s.ex and even more. So, if he was a pedophile, yep - he would love me and pressure me to experience things that I shouldn't... Although this guy wasn't that kind of hyperdog...? ... But yeah, things eventually need a change. I think its just a phase for you?.. Idk, but I def think you should stay away from this guy for a LONG time... Plus, yours and his family would certainly not approve that; trust me.
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mtndewhm* · 1 decade ago
Don't have s.x with him. I made that mistake. But go ahead and be with him, see what happens. Maybe you will last, and maybe you won't.
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TheHeartVersusTheHead · 1 decade ago
Sweety, listen, hes
17. Boys lie. He doesn't love you and he won't marry you when you're 18. I'm 17 and I know how boys act that are my age. He's playing you, teasing you, leading you on. They do it all the time. Save yourself the heartbreak. Even if he did love you, in 5 years your whole world will be different and so will his. It'll be different. If you really "love" him (infatuated, crush, etc) you'll let him go and live his life. He's graduating soon, college, marriage eventually, and it won't be you. Let him go. When you're older you'll meet someone who is your age and able to give you the world. Not this random guy.
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Blue_jay23* · 1 decade ago
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
oh okay!
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gray22 · 1 decade ago
okay i honestly believe that love is love, but please be careful sweetheart becayse he could just be saying things to get nasty pictures of you and take advantage so just be smart okay <33 good luck honey :P
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
:) thanks
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gray22 · 1 decade ago
just promise me you won't do anything stupid okay kiddo? <33
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
We, he prbbly fk I'm fter 1 wek!
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too_much-swag* · 1 decade ago
dont listen to anyone. Do what your heart says. If you are willing to take the risk just go for it. Don't do anything stupid of course.All those 18 year olds who have 22 year old bfs forgets that once they were a kid & their bf was an adult. Just relax & try to figure out if he is serious not just by his words but by his actions. Who knows maybe he is your soulmate..you can't just let him walk away!
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skull1111 · 1 decade ago
as long as he loves you back, go for it!!!!!
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
:) he says he wants to marry me when im 18!
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xxmermaids104xx · 1 decade ago
If you love him, really love him, who gives a crap about age? My Nana was nineteen when she married a forty year old she didn't even love and no one batted an eye. If you both love each other screw what everyone else thinks. Just be sure what you fell is love. Don't worry about being labeled by others for who you love, because real love is worth the risk. Just do what you think will make you happy, screw the rest.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
0-0 okay that's different XD
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
So basically in one year, or less, you are going to be a gerontophile and he is going to be a pedophile. You are 13 now and you don't know love yet, you think you know because of the raging hormones. When i was 13 i was only worried about how to name my webkinz.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
yes...that's all good and sh/t! But what do I do? How can I stop this?
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xxcandycakesxx · 1 decade ago
1. You're 13. You are going to "think" you're in love all the time.
2. When this guy turns 18, it'll be considered pedophilia.
3. You are too young to know what true love is.
I may sound like a to you, but it's just my opinion.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Why do people say this? No one else knows my feelings!
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Hale_Storm18 · 1 decade ago
Sorry, but age does matter. You're both in different parts of your life. You're in middle school and he's in high school--getting ready for college. In about a year he'll be an adult and you'll still be a child. You're scared of pressure from younger guys? He's 17! Obviously he has more experience sexually than 13 year old guys so he'd be the one to pressure you.
Besides, I doubt you're in love. I've never meant a 13 year old who's known what love is. If anything, you're infatuated with him.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
I'm English, I'm in high school! Don't judge, I do love him, it is true, p.s I'm scared of pressure that's why I don't date him!
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Hale_Storm18 · 1 decade ago
It doesn't matter if you're English and the school system is different. You're still too young and age does matter. Seriously, you're 13. I doubt you know what love is, let alone know you're "in love". I'm sorry, but if the whole "pressure" thing is why you're not dating, you're not mature enough to be in a relationship with him. Plus, if that's the only reason you two don't date and he's willing to date you, any 17 year old willing to date a 13 year old is definitely a little sketchy.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Ur write, hes s fugly! hes jst a sltti cnt! serus dnt talk to her!
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
OR this is her getting some attention, it really goes either way.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Nay
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
No he won't date me because I AM 13! He wants to wait until I'm at least 16 or 17 so I understand more and can protect myself! CAN EVERYONE STOP NUT STOP IN "" because it IS true, I do love him, call me young, call me little call me whatever the fudge cake you want, yes I'm a "little girl" it's not my fault, I can't help been in love! Don't judge!
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Hale_Storm18 · 1 decade ago
I'm laughing because you asked for people's opinions and now you're getting mad because people are saying the things that you don't like. Don't ask for opinions if you're gonna be like that.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
also I don't want an opinion I want friendly advice and people to stat KINDLY what they think I should do
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
P.s I like your quotes, but please except the fact im offened and feel like your berlittling me slightly, Im sorry, if im wrong, but I am offened that people say, Im 13 I cant know true love, when I can, ive been hurt, I know that feeling!
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
I asked for it too be put in a NICE way, a lot of people have said what your saying but they put differently...If you catch my drift! Also by what you are saying is offending me, because
1.im not dating him
2. I feel offened because your saying I cant love basically, how do you know? You are not me...Im not like other teenagers my age, at all!
3. your judging me...
4. i'LL TELL YOU WHAT LOVE IS, love is the feeling in your heart when you feel warm around that one person, where you feel shy in front them, and true love is where someone doesn't hurt you, where its a friendly date before a relationship or even a friendship! Love comes is in all ages, shapes, sizes, colours/colors (since you Amercian) and true deep Love is where you heart never stops beating for that one person, If you look deep in your heart, no matter what age, you can love and know true love!
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SweetieXoX27 · 1 decade ago
Age definitely matters at this age, I'm sorry to tell you. In less than a year, he'll be an adult, and you'll still be a child. Think about it, it's the equivalent of dating a 9 year old. I know how you feel, but It won't be a big deal when you're 17 yourself.
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SweetieXoX27 · 1 decade ago
This could look bad for him, and it's just not the right time. My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am, he's 21 and I'm 17, and even that doesn't look so great. But 13 and 17 are not the right ages yet. Just wait a few years, okay? No harm in that.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Ok, thanks
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Luv suks just lie u! Plaz jst gtfo witty n clen ur teth!
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idciamme · 1 decade ago
says the person who can't spell. Do not EVER tell someone to get off witty. Witty is a place for people to make jokes and clear your head and it's haters like you that ruin it. Also, you don't know if she's a bad person so why would you say she sucks? Why don't you grow up and learn that people have feelings also.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Wll m telin de trth
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idciamme · 1 decade ago
Again, spelling is key if you want to insult someone. I would not even bother being hurt by you because you can't spell. Witty is a second home to me and people just like YOU ruin it. have a fantastic day .
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Srry ll m dun I tel de truth
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idciamme · 1 decade ago
A$$hole
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
She's probably a 10-year old thinking she's a bad ašš bîtčh. xD
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
I'm 15!
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
Yep. Sure you are.
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idciamme · 1 decade ago
My 9 year old sister can spell better than she can.... So omgsolittle you might need a lesson in spelling.
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KassieKiss · 1 decade ago
Love is something you can't rush into. Give it time, If you still love him in a couple years and he truelly loves you too, you guys will be together. Im not judging you but your still young, Live your life before you get into something that can change your life entirely. Trust me. I was going to be a mom at 15, from a guy who was three years older then me. He said he loved me but turned out he was using me. I don't want that to happen to someone else. And you need a childhood. Take it from someone who knows how it feels to have to grow up so fast. Just give it time, kiddo. It will all work itself out. And like I said, if it is true love you two will be together but time is really what you two need.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Thanks, we are not dating!
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rachiesaysrawr · 1 decade ago
I think you're further in than you think. This boy is seventeen and he could easily be playing you. You have to be careful. You have to remember he's almost eighteen and then he will be considered a pedophile. He night love you but it might be a creepy love. Like a stalker one. You know? Just be careful.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
I will, but... We're not dating....
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Gt bk on sd laser, they rep u n ther
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Swag Unicorn* · 1 decade ago
WHAT THE ACTUAL FÛCK ARE YOU SAYING ARE YOU FROM EARTH I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS LANGUAGE THAT YOU SPEAK
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Woooow chnge u pic series cuz u are fugly, I know u in Rlly ewrie
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rachiesaysrawr · 1 decade ago
Can you shut up.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
I'm just tellin the truth!
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rachiesaysrawr · 1 decade ago
Just because you call it honesty doesn't mean anyone else does. Shut your mouth.
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Please don't feed the troll, they are on a very healthy diet of forgiveness and love!
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
mke mh!
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rachiesaysrawr · 1 decade ago
This is my last comment because I can barely u del stand you. Find a dictionary, then grow up and get off witty.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Wooooowwwwww grow up! Serous just plz gtfo this website your to stupid to be on it! Serous you just need a life and may be than pull realize your hated on here, than realize the boy would ne4 Mary a sh..t like you! P.s age really matters since ur just so yung, and ugly too! I'm glad u were bullied, maybe u shuldve listened to em! Bye bye!
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
I'm not defending either side, but you really need to grow up and go back to kindergarten because of your lack of grammatical and spelling knowledge. Stop belittling her for her appearance or her choice of boyfriend. You need to rethink your life choices.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Hmmm I knw hr in Rlly nd ud b joning me!
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
Yeah but that doesn't give you more of a reason to be mean towards her.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
It does
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
Wow, okay. You really need to re-evaluate yourself. Grow up. Thanks. It would do the world a whole lot of good.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
S wud ths thngs suinidie
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
Do you even English?
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
i chi casineb fuwch
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lovecrazy · 1 decade ago
Uh yes age does matter. lol so you're scared of pressure from young boys but you're "in love" with a 17 year old? Yeah, because he isn't going to pressure you into anything right...
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
P.s how is this IN ANY WAY funny? It's a problem I have to deal with it and I need help from friends or someone... Not to be spoken to like that, how do you know my heart? If you loved someone 4 years older than you I wouldn't judge you so don't judge me...
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lovecrazy · 1 decade ago
Oh, I'm judging you, and so is every single person that reads this quote. You're 13, he can pressure you into anything he wants, because he has more experience than you do. So you can stop looking for a fight with me, because idgaf about what you do with your life.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Am I de only 1 her wh o thnks this gurl is stupid and he will ne4 luv her bck cuz she is ugly?!?
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Alright, we're NOT dating, calm you t!ts girl, seriously... Please dont judge, have you ever loved someone you would die to be with, but you know you can't date them?
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lovecrazy · 1 decade ago
I didn't say you were dating, did I? No, I didn't so why don't you calm your little 13 year old mosquito bites. Bye, now.
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
Omg lol, u r so funny! This Lil bych can eat it! Wow!
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
What if I killed myself? Would you care?
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Cupycakes · 1 decade ago
I WOULD CARE! DON'T LISTEN TO THIS JERK!
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
:) come here and let me hug you right now!
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Cupycakes · 1 decade ago
*virtual hug*
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
-hugs back- your mine now cupcake
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Cupycakes · 1 decade ago
:0! :D *gives rainbow sprinkles*
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
RAINBOW ~gives you coffee that's gives you magically powers and a teddy bear and a magic wond (harry potters wond)~
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omgsolittle · 1 decade ago
No flirting eay fugly bych, plz do us that favour!
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
Bye...
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Alexisiscool · 1 decade ago
>:@ I do love him! The reason im scared is the reason why I don't date him!
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