9 faves · 9 comments · Aug 22, 2013 4:43pm
vivre merveilleusement*
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1 decade ago
brb dying in my own years. Hannah, no :-( please eat. you're perfect the way you are, never forget that, and you shouldn't have to skip meals to feel ok. don't let that person's words get to you, they mean nothing other than hurting you. obviously that person is god.damn f.cking crazy, ok? don't listen, ignore them, and love yourself, because you deserve to be happy with yourself. if a person goes from calling you fat to anorexic in a matter of minutes they have no clue what they mean. you're not fat - and even if you were bigger you'd still be beautiful as ever. and you don't need to be skinny and labeled as anorexic to be pretty. so many people love you the way you are, and you should remember that because it makes me awful sad to know that you feel this way :-( keep your head up & keep loving yourself no matter what. <33
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rooftops*
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1 decade ago
but the thing is "so many people love you" that's not really true.. maybe three people do. i know i act really f.king happy on twitter and play it off like i'm fine but seriously, i can't take this sh.t anymore..
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vivre merveilleusement*
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1 decade ago
i'm sorry :-( I figured you weren't as happy as it all seemed.. I could kind of just tell, and that upsets me. lots of people care about you on here, don't they? and you've got some close friends that you mean the world too, I can tell by how you talk about them and how they talk about you, too, anyone can tell that you and your good friends really love eachother. i'm probably rambling in these comments, and they probably mean next to nothing to you, but I just wish things were working out better for you.. i'm sorry.. I don't know what else to say, and this probably makes me one of those really terrible friends. i wish you could realize how perfect you are no matter what other people say, because you're downright beautiful, and you make me laugh all of the time, you're so sweet and funny and so easy to talk to, and you're a great person in general, and I hate that you think so much less of yourself than that. stay strong. x
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rooftops*
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1 decade ago
thank you. <3 that means a lot. i do have those few friends, you're right. and the fact that you could 'kind of see it' (meaning that i wasn't as happy) bums me out because i try really hard to be the positive one for everyone. aka why im always so cheerful (or atleast try to be) and funny on twitter bc a lot of my followers need the little bit of happiness. i just want to have everyone else happy and in the time i'm loosing my own. :/
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vivre merveilleusement*
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1 decade ago
well of course. c: & maybe instead of focusing on others' happiness, you should spend a little more time on your own happiness, and find what makes you feel better, or what makes you calmer, or what makes you feel better about yourself. because you deserve to be just as happy as other people. it's not your fault that you let it through that you were kind of sad - it happens to all kinds of people, especially when they don't want it known. it's ok. you just need some time to sort out your feelings and come to better love yourself, I think, because like I said, you deserve to be happy. Not just with yourself, but it general. c:
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rooftops*
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1 decade ago
i've been trying. it's just hopeless sometimes. but thanks c:
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vivre merveilleusement*
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1 decade ago
i'm really sorry :-(( and of course. c:
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countrychic98
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1 decade ago
Well this "friend" of yours is a guy, and guys dont think about what they say, so dont let it get to you.
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dragonfly26 · 1 decade ago
Like countrychic98 said, don't let him get to you. Because then he'll be in your head, and you'll start to believe him. Please Don't let that happen. I get called anorexic a lot, but I don't let it get to me. Sure, I'm constantly checking to see if I've gained weight and trying to flatten my stomach, but that doesn't stop me from eating like an elephant :) . I sort of almost get what you're saying, about kind of wanting to be anorexic. It's really hard to explain.
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